How should I approach a cute girl that I don’t know without seeming creepy?

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I saw this really cute girl earlier today.

She was thin, blonde, and pretty.

She had a sense of style I appreciate; she was wearing a pretty dress and a leather Biker jacket.
I thought her style made her look feminine, classy and confident.

She also walked in a way I found really elegant, confident, and feminine.

I see these kinds of girls sometimes but almost never get to talk to them.
I was wondering if there would be an appropriate way to approach a girl like this.

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Anyone else, I wanted some female opinions.

Answer 1

Kiss_Me

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MOST men fail to cross 4 bridges when dealing with women:
Meeting them
Asking for the date
First kiss
Sex
You, obviously, are having trouble with the first one. All you have to do is strike up a conversation with her, flirt a little and gauge her reaction. If its hostile, leave. If she is nice and flirts back, spend ONLY about 2 to 3 minutes talking and then ask for her number. Then LEAVE. First, you don't want to be that creep that never leaves. Second, it sends a powerful message that your time is precious YET you took a few minutes to meet her.
Here is how I might have done it.
I'd politely stop her and look her up and down. Then say, "I'm lovin this jacket. It looks very good on you." I'd purposely interrupt the next things she says with, "I normally don't stop people in public, but I love to meet new and interesting people. It usually helps if I find them to be a beautiful women. Hi, I' XYX, what's yours?"
From there judge her reaction and run with it.
YMMV, but let us know it goes if you see her. We're nosy like that... :)

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RyanEC

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OK I’ll try that.
Thanks.
JamesTara

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Brother I wouldn't have a problem with the last two but the first two can be a problem yes. After these two bridges the third would be for me meeting her parents 😂😂😂
Darknut

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Well the problem is women shoot men down for almost anything anymore even if they are genuine. It's happened to me irl and on here. there's always some kind of issue. No wonder we habe trouble starting and maintaining relationships. Always looking for a fault.

Answer 2

RyanEC

OK I’ll try that.
Thanks.

Answer 3

JamesTara

Brother I wouldn't have a problem with the last two but the first two can be a problem yes. After these two bridges the third would be for me meeting her parents 😂😂😂

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Darknut

Well the problem is women shoot men down for almost anything anymore even if they are genuine. It's happened to me irl and on here. there's always some kind of issue. No wonder we habe trouble starting and maintaining relationships. Always looking for a fault.

Answer 5

OlderAndWiser | 1.1K opinions shared on Flirting topic.

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Girls like guys who are confident and assertive. You could approach her and say, "I saw you from a distance and the way you walk, the way you dress, the way you carry yourself. . . they all suggested to me that you are a very classy and elegant woman who I would like to know better. If I bought you lunch sometime soon, would you tell me about yourself?"

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RyanEC

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Great idea.

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RyanEC

Great idea.

Answer 7

Anonymous

Say something outside the box, something that you think "most" guys wouldn't say. Don't just tell her she's hot. Instead, strike up conversation based on something you've noticed about her, like her leather jacket. Or if she's drinking a coffee, ask her what her favorite coffee shop is. Something like that.

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RyanEC

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So do you think it would be appropriate to walk up to her and say something like “Hey I just wanted to say I really like your style, what brand is your jacket? Is it real leather.
JamesTara

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@RyanEC Bro no man this is also basic what she says. Complimenting a piece of cloth no no no. Dont come with your standard 'Hey'. Walk up to her and say: Can I may ask you something? She: Yes? You: When are we going to eat something.

You know what it is with strangers you dont know. if they like you. Best way is monitoring them for 1/2 weeks stay on the low look what she does when you look her in the eye you have to listen to your gut feeling and. feel the vibe. Do you feel the vibe? Ask her to eat something if she like you she will believe me. If not then drop her ignore her and dont spend time on her anymore.
RyanEC

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Okay I’ll try that thank.
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Opinion Owner

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For the record, I actually disagree with the guy above 😂 I don't see anything wrong with complimenting her sense of style. I think what you said ("“Hey I just wanted to say I really like your style, what brand is your jacket? Is it real leather.") sounds good, except I would leave out the part about asking if it's real leather lol.

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RyanEC

So do you think it would be appropriate to walk up to her and say something like “Hey I just wanted to say I really like your style, what brand is your jacket? Is it real leather.

Answer 9

JamesTara

@RyanEC Bro no man this is also basic what she says. Complimenting a piece of cloth no no no. Dont come with your standard 'Hey'. Walk up to her and say: Can I may ask you something? She: Yes? You: When are we going to eat something.

You know what it is with strangers you dont know. if they like you. Best way is monitoring them for 1/2 weeks stay on the low look what she does when you look her in the eye you have to listen to your gut feeling and. feel the vibe. Do you feel the vibe? Ask her to eat something if she like you she will believe me. If not then drop her ignore her and dont spend time on her anymore.

Answer 10

RyanEC

Okay I’ll try that thank.

Answer 11

Opinion Owner

For the record, I actually disagree with the guy above 😂 I don't see anything wrong with complimenting her sense of style. I think what you said ("“Hey I just wanted to say I really like your style, what brand is your jacket? Is it real leather.") sounds good, except I would leave out the part about asking if it's real leather lol.

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SuccessfulHornDog | 460 opinions shared on Flirting topic.

Master

If you think that you will see her again you dont have to go all out the first time you see her. Instead say hi and have some small talk with her. then build upon that on subsequent meetings

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RyanEC

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Okay I’ll try that next time. 👍🏻
SuccessfulHornDog

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It is much trickier when you don't think that you will see her again. I have done the cold walk up (after psyching myself up) and it is usually not successful because it can scare the girl off. I guess your best approach in those situations is to approach her in a way that is as least threatening as possible
SuccessfulHornDog

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Try inviting some girls to the question

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RyanEC

Okay I’ll try that next time. 👍🏻

Answer 14

SuccessfulHornDog

It is much trickier when you don't think that you will see her again. I have done the cold walk up (after psyching myself up) and it is usually not successful because it can scare the girl off. I guess your best approach in those situations is to approach her in a way that is as least threatening as possible

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SuccessfulHornDog

Try inviting some girls to the question

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moviedude714 | 2K opinions shared on Flirting topic.

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That is why there is an entire industry out there and hundreds if not thousands of YouTube videos about this topic

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