Do you do this?

I went swimming yesterday and met this guy who was super cute, he asked for my number, I gave it to him.
We've been chatting for a few hours and then he offers to go out.
I'm honest and tell him I'm broke and I prefer to pay for either myself or the hangout, its an anxiety thing.
He offers to pay for the day and we can do a "i pay for it today and you get the next one"
This is the question, do any of you get anxiety over first hang out/dates, and also who pays at said event?
I often make plans several days away, because I just don't like the feeling of anxiety around others paying for stuff.
Do you do this?
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