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I went swimming yesterday and met this guy who was super cute, he asked for my number, I gave it to him.
We've been chatting for a few hours and then he offers to go out.
I'm honest and tell him I'm broke and I prefer to pay for either myself or the hangout, its an anxiety thing.
He offers to pay for the day and we can do a "i pay for it today and you get the next one"
This is the question, do any of you get anxiety over first hang out/dates, and also who pays at said event?
I often make plans several days away, because I just don't like the feeling of anxiety around others paying for stuff.

Answer 1

Tyrael

Xper 7

I think you're doing the right thing by just being honest and discussing it with each other. Too many people just assume they have to pay or that the other person will pay and then potentially have to deal with that anxiety.

Answer 2

NamerOfStars

Guru

Not really, but then, I don't propose anything I couldn't pay for. There are lots of options for dates that cost little or nothing, if you're creative.

Answer 3

TacosRAwesome | 500 opinions shared on Flirting topic.

Master

Can you go for a walk and maybe grab a cheap snack if you're peckish?

Answer 4

m2hard4sum1sbum

Xper 4

Always but it passes.

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