Ladies do you feel like everytime a guy flirts with you, its because of your body?

- Of course it is. Girls don’t flirt with ugly short men. I’m tall and handsome and broad. The hoes love that shit. They don’t flirt with me for my personality. They don’t even need to see my personality before they start flirting with me. Making eyes at me. Standing close to me. “Accidentally” bumping into me. Cmon lol. Of course it’s all about looks.
Society lies. I feel like we’re all taught that “beauty is only skin deep.” Lol. Bullshit. You have to look good. And if you don’t, you just lower your standards until you can get someone to want you. Most of us settle. That’s the facts of reality.Is this still revelant?
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- I mean if we've never meet you before and we meet in public then what else do we have to go off of? We could he creepy and listen in but we've learned women dont like that so we just approach with that we have to go off of and try our best to impress youIs this still revelant?
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- I've only been approached by guys after a class where I gave a presentation or asked questions to the prof.
I think its because I speak with passion and conviction, and they start by approaching me with an interesting conversation which almost always ends up in "do you wanna go for drinks/ a coffee? "
I do however always have to tell them I don't drink coffee or alcohol xD
P. S. Im not an athlete, but I keep healthy, so I guess my appearance is a bonus xDIs this still revelant?U seem rather heartless.
Guys do that, I do that, becz remember that old saying " it's now or never," well for guys. Its the now or never gonna happen.
We dont seem to understand the principle of having patience. This, I feel like its something we 'gots to learn.'@Am_and_Pm well its ok, you can think what you want, though it doesn't really do you any good to assume things, and you don't know me.. at all. if you did know me, youd be the 1st person on this earth to call me heartless. But you dont, so Im ok :D
Not all girls are like me of course, but I know many girls (and guys too actually) who would rather be friends first before starting a romantic thing. SO if there's someone you find really appealing, You are absolutely right that patience is THE principle to follow. And just start with being a friend- Show All Show Less
- If I do get compliments on my body, I'd feel great since I never get compliments on my body.
When people compliment me for being smart and clever (which I get that a lot from my aunt), I'll feel even better.
Though, if someone wanted a relationship with me because of my body, then that relationship won't happen. I'd be flattered to get compliments on my body and all, but someone who wants a relationship with me because of my body? In his or her dreams.Is this still revelant?
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309- This will probably sound a touch conceited but I genuinely feel like it’s a definite selling point. I’ve never received any complaints and am complimented on my figure at least twice a day. Of course some guys approach me because I’m a sweet person, friendly, etc. But I think the first thing people see/consider is my body. And while I don’t wish to seem shallow, I don’t mind that it’s the first thing people look at.React
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- I actually think it's a joke, I'm not curvy at all, nor am I skinny, I am shaped very weird. I do have "huge" boobs, as I've been told by a lot of guys. When a guy flirts with me, he usually wants nudes, and when I send them they stop talking to me.React
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- Attraction is the start. Like if a guy doesn’t find you beautiful or even good looking why would he approach? Men are visual creatures by nature but that doesn’t mean he won’t run for the hills if your personality is that of a wet mop!React
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- Yes, it depends on what I am wearing. A guy wouldn't just talk to me just because I am wearing like a homeless. They wouldn't talk to you because they fell in love with you at first sight or something about you that just makes him want to talk to you. It's all about looks.React
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@BrianMarks No, not all but I liked how confident, charming and understandable he is so I went to talk to him and a bit flirt with him. So, he became my friend ever since. It could've been me, and it goes both guys and girls.
Gotcha. So had he not looked cute you still would have liked him because of his confidence. Interesting.
- I'm sure it is but hey! It's two big reasons and I accept that. If they like me as a person and I like them too, I will flirt back.React
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- Anonymous1 yNope. Because being a woman of high self-respect I only dress modestly. The guys (often very successful men) that do flirt aren't after an easy screw (where body/looks only matter), they're looking for a potential girlfriend/wife.React
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- Anonymous1 yMen and women are BOTH visual creatures who pursue individuals that they find most attractive.
They flirt with people that they are sexually attracted to.
Otherwise it would just be a friendship.ReactLike
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- That’s the case for some guys and someone’s looks is always going to be what causes the initial attraction but I believe people only stay around because they connect. It’s hard to flirt with someone who has a bland personality.React
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- i think it’s because of appearance at first but could be other reasonsReact
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- I do believe that it's probably the natural reaction and feeling for the majority of women.React
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- well it's usually something physical, body, face, hair, smileReact
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- I think it's because I am easy to talk to🤔 Also, I think I am funny.React
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- Well, men are visual creatures. I'm sure our intelligence is also a plus but of course, it matters what we look like, that's just the truth - and there's nothing wrong with that.React
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Our bodies are what make them come, our minds are what make them stay! You can't keep a guy if you're not witty or intelligent.
- There's an appearance that man love, dressing like a slut does gets attention from boys but the confidence and grace the girl holds herself will attract more, she must obviously have a beautiful smile.React
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- Anonymous1 yfor me its more so what they want to do with it (so I guess yeah?)React
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- Isn't that at least part of the reason men and women flirt with each other?React
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- guys, same question... do you ever feel like when a lady flirts with you, it's because of your body?React
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- Yes they do, because that's all she has to offer, besides dumb questions?React
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You have a year or so left to find you wifey.
Unless you plan to take the "perpetual adolescence" very seriously.
Either way, Good luck bro :DHoo do you think you are?
I've passed her up a dozen times; she was gorgeous and kind and all about boys named Ryan. You know very well that I don't take... you know, stuff... seriously. Except... I forgot.
Fortunately, Whitney Hoot-ston, 🎶 I will owl-ways love you! 🎵- Show All Show Less
I also answer to Beowulf, co-king of the freaks, Forgotten FuRyan on YouTube, ForgottenFuRyan on pornhub and Almost Inflatable Arm-Flailing Tubeman on account of my dance skills. Are you spying on me?
"Owls are wise. They are careful and patient. Wisdom precludes boldness. That is why owls make poor heroes."
-- Patrick Rothfuss, The Name of the WindThat movie Legend Of The Guardians is misleading. An owl in armour, I mean... come on!
P. S. Yes, girls flirt with me because of my body, it's instinct. Don't be upset with them, okay?Scary! 😮 Given the context, is 'it' my chosing to be single for life, in spite of my 'all of this right here?' [Interpretive dance]
Why does this app have so many damned incels. Can y'all stop projecting your heartbreak and or inability to get laid. Blame yourself for your own inadequacies.
@TheLittleInnocent OMG dont upset him girl xD you're about to unleash the pandora box. I'ma be out
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- If you have a nice body guys will flirt with you. Personally I don't go for body shapeReact
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