Ladies do you feel like everytime a guy flirts with you, its because of your body?

[Kaazsz]

Of course it is. Girls don’t flirt with ugly short men. I’m tall and handsome and broad. The hoes love that shit. They don’t flirt with me for my personality. They don’t even need to see my personality before they start flirting with me. Making eyes at me. Standing close to me. “Accidentally” bumping into me. Cmon lol. Of course it’s all about looks.


Society lies. I feel like we’re all taught that “beauty is only skin deep.” Lol. Bullshit. You have to look good. And if you don’t, you just lower your standards until you can get someone to want you. Most of us settle. That’s the facts of reality.

[fireheart105]

I mean if we've never meet you before and we meet in public then what else do we have to go off of? We could he creepy and listen in but we've learned women dont like that so we just approach with that we have to go off of and try our best to impress you

[SnowyOwl]

I've only been approached by guys after a class where I gave a presentation or asked questions to the prof.
I think its because I speak with passion and conviction, and they start by approaching me with an interesting conversation which almost always ends up in "do you wanna go for drinks/ a coffee? "

I do however always have to tell them I don't drink coffee or alcohol xD

P. S. Im not an athlete, but I keep healthy, so I guess my appearance is a bonus xD

[Youryeodongsaeng]

If I do get compliments on my body, I'd feel great since I never get compliments on my body.
When people compliment me for being smart and clever (which I get that a lot from my aunt), I'll feel even better.

Though, if someone wanted a relationship with me because of my body, then that relationship won't happen. I'd be flattered to get compliments on my body and all, but someone who wants a relationship with me because of my body? In his or her dreams.

[babysteph]

This will probably sound a touch conceited but I genuinely feel like it’s a definite selling point. I’ve never received any complaints and am complimented on my figure at least twice a day. Of course some guys approach me because I’m a sweet person, friendly, etc. But I think the first thing people see/consider is my body. And while I don’t wish to seem shallow, I don’t mind that it’s the first thing people look at.

[DepressionXglitter]

I actually think it's a joke, I'm not curvy at all, nor am I skinny, I am shaped very weird. I do have "huge" boobs, as I've been told by a lot of guys. When a guy flirts with me, he usually wants nudes, and when I send them they stop talking to me.

[Mama1525]

Attraction is the start. Like if a guy doesn’t find you beautiful or even good looking why would he approach? Men are visual creatures by nature but that doesn’t mean he won’t run for the hills if your personality is that of a wet mop!

[d_mudg]

Yes, it depends on what I am wearing. A guy wouldn't just talk to me just because I am wearing like a homeless. They wouldn't talk to you because they fell in love with you at first sight or something about you that just makes him want to talk to you. It's all about looks.

[EclecticEmapath1111]

I'm sure it is but hey! It's two big reasons and I accept that. If they like me as a person and I like them too, I will flirt back.

[Anonymous]

Nope. Because being a woman of high self-respect I only dress modestly. The guys (often very successful men) that do flirt aren't after an easy screw (where body/looks only matter), they're looking for a potential girlfriend/wife.

[Anonymous]

Men and women are BOTH visual creatures who pursue individuals that they find most attractive.
They flirt with people that they are sexually attracted to.
Otherwise it would just be a friendship.

[Shruxee]

That’s the case for some guys and someone’s looks is always going to be what causes the initial attraction but I believe people only stay around because they connect. It’s hard to flirt with someone who has a bland personality.

[kyliesz]

i think it’s because of appearance at first but could be other reasons

[EmmaMary]

I do believe that it's probably the natural reaction and feeling for the majority of women.

[rachel776]

well it's usually something physical, body, face, hair, smile

[Hazelstar99]

I think it's because I am easy to talk to🤔 Also, I think I am funny.

[Killer-Queen]

Well, men are visual creatures. I'm sure our intelligence is also a plus but of course, it matters what we look like, that's just the truth - and there's nothing wrong with that.

[BhaniLovesMusic]

There's an appearance that man love, dressing like a slut does gets attention from boys but the confidence and grace the girl holds herself will attract more, she must obviously have a beautiful smile.

[Wise4myage]

Isn't that at least part of the reason men and women flirt with each other?

[Anonymous]

for me its more so what they want to do with it (so I guess yeah?)

[Dave31989]

guys, same question... do you ever feel like when a lady flirts with you, it's because of your body?

[havingfun101]

Yes they do, because that's all she has to offer, besides dumb questions?

[Sam23685]

If you have a nice body guys will flirt with you. Personally I don't go for body shape

[Alyssa11]

Most of the time, yeah...

[anon1903]

Shrugs, I don't get flirted by.

[Juiceboxbrat]

No. I think it's cause they think I'm easy.

[Dinklex3]

That and my face i guess, lol.

[SavageGirl101]

Yea that’s why I don’t like being around guys😀

[Meangurl]

Yes I used to feel this way all the time.

[JosyJosy]

No. But it is usually the case yes

[TacosRAwesome]

Probably but who cares.

[Pallavi37]

Yess most of the time I feel same

[Justneedtokno]

No but I know it’s not for nothing

[sheikalana]

It's because of my face.

[likelyOK]

No I feel it’s my face first then maybe my body.

[Luzz-Cuzz-Muzz-Huzz]

I think that's usually the way it goes.

[Cherokeehp]

Yah pretty much.

[Lonelywolfxl]

Yes physics important to me

[JaneDoe377]

Nope

[thehorriblesheikh]

I felt like that when I was rather fit.

[chris_987]

Don’t women flirt with men because of our bodies

[Smilingqueen2]

Not so

[ABritonInAmerica]

Yuppers