If your crush sent you a text, would you reply right away or take few minutes/hours?

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The real story -Just 2 days ago people told me that my guy friend have a crush on me. Since a year he used to text me a lot & reply in few minutes. Now he takes hours to reply. We used to send eachother many brief texts at a time. Now I send him many text & he replies the last one.

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Anonymous

Actually it depends. My experience so far is that I reply right away, and the girl replies after hours. This hurts even more from crush. So I just swipe away the notification and reply when the next time I open that app for someone else.

This behavior has made me judgmental towards people who reply late. And most likely i lose my crush a bit by bit, every-time girl replies late.

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What should I do if a guy does that?
Opinion Owner

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If you started it, then try to answer immediately. If he always does this, just stay away and try to move on. I know it is difficult. But it is for the best.

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Asker

What should I do if a guy does that?

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Opinion Owner

If you started it, then try to answer immediately. If he always does this, just stay away and try to move on. I know it is difficult. But it is for the best.

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OlderAndWiser | 953 opinions shared on Flirting topic.

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You mean, "Should I play games and hide my level of interest to make him think he needs to work harder at getting me?"

Answer 5

virgin20

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I'd wake up from that dream😂
Nah serious I would need to compose and maybe talk to my mates quickly to get a pep talk or something. But I'm not the one to leave people for hours I normally reply when I get their message, don't agree with this "hard to get" stuff. Just reply

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Kiss_Me

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UGH... you have a crush and your TEXTING?

Call this person on the phone and ask for a date.

Asker

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Nope. A someone told me that my friend likes me.
But when I text him, he takes all day to reply.
Kiss_Me

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You have identified a problem you want corrected, yet you make a conscious decision to do nothing about it. Just call the guy and actually talk to him. Give the guy ample opportunity to ask for a date. If he balks, ask him.

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Asker

Nope. A someone told me that my friend likes me.
But when I text him, he takes all day to reply.

Answer 8

Kiss_Me

You have identified a problem you want corrected, yet you make a conscious decision to do nothing about it. Just call the guy and actually talk to him. Give the guy ample opportunity to ask for a date. If he balks, ask him.

Answer 9

Trooper205

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Normally, I try to reply as soon as I can. If I don't, I'm either Busy, Sleeping, Didn't hear my phone, Don't have my phone with me, or Very Distracted...

If your crush sent you a text, would you reply right away or take few minutes/hours?

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