The more I practice in my head the better I am out loud. Anybody got tips, pick-lines, or wanna practice with me. That would be great! Need me to pick up some boyzzzz
Can y'all help me with my flirting game?

The more I practice in my head the better I am out loud. Anybody got tips, pick-lines, or wanna practice with me. That would be great! Need me to pick up some boyzzzz
- I think flirting is very specialized. It's goal-specific. And both people have to be on the same page.
For example, if you're looking for sex, the other person has to also be looking for sex. Otherwise the flirt won't work. You'll be dead in the water right from the start.
There also has to be a certain level of comfort. The person you're flirting with has to not only know that you're flirting (you can't be vague about it), but they also have to know that it's okay to flirt back.
I've been flirted with before in professional situations, and I KNEW they were flirting, but I didn't flirt back because I deemed it inappropriate to do so.
But going back to my first point: You need to have a goal in mind. Not only for the relationship, but also for the flirt itself. Are you trying to just chat? Are you trying to "get off"? Are you trying to seduce them into coming over? In other words, what is the POINT? What is the objective?
Also, timing is important. You have to allow enough time for the flirt to play out. And if that requires more than 10 minutes, for example, you need to first confirm and verify that the person is available to talk and can give you their full attention for that sustained period of time.
That's all I've got; sorry. I myself am by no means an expert on the topic of flirting. I have less game than Urkel.0|00|0Is this still revelant?by the way, flirting for people who are not looking for sex (for example, religious people) is much harder, in my opinion. Because you have to kind of keep it bland on purpose so as not to offend the other person and to make sure they don't get the wrong idea of what your intentions are.
You are right about it being harder when you're not looking for sex. That's more so what I want to learn. But you don't have to have the same objective to flirt. Most people who do it well don't have a very specific objective.
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Thanks for the MHO. :)
"Most people who do it well don't have a very specific objective.". But that's dangerous, though. That can cause confusion and chaos.
What do you mean by "what they were in the middle of"?
- Haha.. always game
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So you're from India. Well baby I got the spice and can treat you nice. Let me take you to bed, we can go through the karma sutra thriceš
@missy52 You're welcome!
And there's nothing wrong with dirty talk. It certainly has its place.
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- Charming their shoes off attracts guys even better than āflirting.ā Donāt try and fake it. Just stick with what youāre really good at.1|10|0Is this still revelant?
- I think that being yourself and have a bright and positive attitude is the best.
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18- I know this is an old question, but the truth is, I've got the world's most boring answer. And that's just be yourself and do your thing. I can give you all the advice to trap a brother tomorrow. To bring him in today and get freaky right now. But I can't promise you that you'll keep him. He might stick around a week, a month or whatever. But once you get comfortable and let guard down and act like yourself? Who knows what he'll do. I remember I once dated a girl and she left me because I was too big. So... I got into the gym for 2 years!!! And I lost all the weight, hit the treadmill, got a personal trainer, stopped drinking alcohol... For 2 years!
She eventually hit me up after a while, we met up, and started hooking up again. But it wasn't the same. And we realised that we just weren't compatible. I spent all that time trying to become "worthy" of her. But in the end I learnt that I was trying to change who I was just to try and "fit" for her.
The truth is the guy or girl who after you, will love you the same.
Now if your question is about a fling? 😂😂😂 That's a different story🤣. That ain't no problem... We can help you out in a heartbeat 💯😂0|00|0Flirting doesn't mean that you have sex or that you want a relationship. It's just a seduction game. I want to be able to just tease, get my way, and move on. If it'll help me get a promotion minus any actual sex, then I want to be able to do it. All in all, I want to be a master manipulator
Massage his ego... Make him feel good about himself. Validate him. Be there for him. And when u got him by the balls. Take it away, and only give it back when he's gagging for it
- Haha if you wanna be āMrs. Steal your manā good, then you need to be talking to me lol.
Iāll put you on game. Send me a follow and letās get a dm going and weāll see what you got, and Iāll show you how to get more. 😁
Flirting is all about owning the conversation and the room. Owning the whole environment. Once you make it yours, you can have your way. It takes wit and charm and precision.
Iāll be waiting 😉0|00|0 - Well as a girl u can just be like really friendly joke around and look for reasons to touch. A hand on the arm or shoulder, go in for hugs. Like ur looking for excuses for physical contact that get the message across. And just little compliments nothing over the top but if u compliment him once or twice everytime u see him ull stand out0|10|0
There is no him lol. Just in theory. I'm staying in all of Corona but I figured I could work on my game in that time.
Also, I want to take a proactive roll in the dating game. I want to woo and seduce and not just be taken. That's wack.Well first thing is to actually be willing to make the first move that make u different then 90% of women alone but u also have to learn how to take a hint. Just like guys that be persistent many girls who. make the first move dont know how to take no for a answer. There a balance
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For seduction do like to. do mind games more or use ur body or is it a combination of both? Everyone kinda has a different method
I just personally prefer to seduce someone with my mind. Cool, I have a body but everybody has a body. I want to connect from the jump with my best asset, my mind.
I disagree. I think you hurt them regardless even if your intentions are good. I would never use a mind game on anyone I cared about.
@Jamie05rhs tbf I think mental seduction can be completely different then mind games. Mental seduction would just doing things he finds hit mentally, it could be displaying intelligence, confidence, a kink, any attribute that he finds mentally stimulating. Playing mind games would be like lying tricking and misleading. Very different
Big facts. There are harmful ways to play mind games like barely responding, talking to multiple guys, cursing out of nowhere. Then there's light flirty mind seductions that cause no harm like waiting to respond after a particularly saucy statement, a wink when you're out, rapid fire silly questions. They aren't anything crazy and they don't hurt people
Ok, well, then, I guess I should stop making saucy statements. No more sauce for you, women of the world! My sauce stays in my body! ... I mean my mind.
- Anonymous1 moUm basically do a lot of eye contact and smiling. Ask them about themselves ya kno.
Usually people flirt by complimenting the other person or like snarky remarks ya kno0|00|0 - This would be far easier in person. See if you can find someone local to you to help you with your, āgameā.0|10|0
Yeah, but sometimes they suck. And if your boy has a personality that's completely different from yours, he might give you advice that is WAY off; and if you follow it, you will come off as extremely fake.
I am pretty sure she can find someone there who suits her comfort and approach to things to help her out.
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Y'all are speaking like it's not a whole corona and meeting new people in real life is not an option.
And Jamie, do you not trust my ability to discern people's personalities myself?@missy52 I'm totally with you on the Coronavirus point.
And I was just speaking for myself on that one. I didn't mean to imply that you were having the same issue.It remains an option in my area. People are still making new acquaintances where I am. I certainly have during this craziness.
Yeah... I prefer to abide by quarantine guidelines. People meeting new people and not restricting their social behavior is why covid is still prominent in the US
I can recall when this all started that the 40 and over were told they were most at risk... and the 30 and under wished us 40 and over to drop dead. Just doing my part to accelerate the process.
- pick lines do not really work... use your body to comunicate... keep eye contact... feel flirtatious, dont talk flirtatious. you body will do the rest.0|10|0
I know those things but when it's time to converse, I don't wanna be a fish out of water.
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you know... dont focus in talking... focus in hearing... make some open questions... hear... and use what is told to question a bit more... that is an easy way to hold a conversation. and show interest... bwtter let the things move in its natural way... nothing worst than be firtaseous with the wrong person...
- Nope, I can't flirt at all so I can't help.0|00|0
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Yea she's one of my favourite actresses and the picture is from one of my favourite shows.
Li Seung-Gi, IU, Park Bo-Young, Seo Ye-Ji, Park Eun-Bin, Kim Da-Mi, Yook Sung-Jae to name some of my favourites
I thought about it and even to a course but ultimately, I didn't due to various reasons, mental health, no confidence and even now that course was almost 10 years ago so I'd have to redo it if I ever plan on doing it again, which I'm not sure anymore.
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