Can y'all help me with my flirting game?

[Jamie05rhs]

I think flirting is very specialized. It's goal-specific. And both people have to be on the same page.

For example, if you're looking for sex, the other person has to also be looking for sex. Otherwise the flirt won't work. You'll be dead in the water right from the start.

There also has to be a certain level of comfort. The person you're flirting with has to not only know that you're flirting (you can't be vague about it), but they also have to know that it's okay to flirt back.

I've been flirted with before in professional situations, and I KNEW they were flirting, but I didn't flirt back because I deemed it inappropriate to do so.

But going back to my first point: You need to have a goal in mind. Not only for the relationship, but also for the flirt itself. Are you trying to just chat? Are you trying to "get off"? Are you trying to seduce them into coming over? In other words, what is the POINT? What is the objective?

Also, timing is important. You have to allow enough time for the flirt to play out. And if that requires more than 10 minutes, for example, you need to first confirm and verify that the person is available to talk and can give you their full attention for that sustained period of time.

That's all I've got; sorry. I myself am by no means an expert on the topic of flirting. I have less game than Urkel.

[sidh69]

Haha.. always game

What's the plan

[Gwenhwyfar]

Charming their shoes off attracts guys even better than “flirting.” Don’t try and fake it. Just stick with what you’re really good at.

[Iwasthinkingif]

I think that being yourself and have a bright and positive attitude is the best.
Be confident and don't think too much

[rufaro88]

I know this is an old question, but the truth is, I've got the world's most boring answer. And that's just be yourself and do your thing. I can give you all the advice to trap a brother tomorrow. To bring him in today and get freaky right now. But I can't promise you that you'll keep him. He might stick around a week, a month or whatever. But once you get comfortable and let guard down and act like yourself? Who knows what he'll do. I remember I once dated a girl and she left me because I was too big. So... I got into the gym for 2 years!!! And I lost all the weight, hit the treadmill, got a personal trainer, stopped drinking alcohol... For 2 years!

She eventually hit me up after a while, we met up, and started hooking up again. But it wasn't the same. And we realised that we just weren't compatible. I spent all that time trying to become "worthy" of her. But in the end I learnt that I was trying to change who I was just to try and "fit" for her.

The truth is the guy or girl who after you, will love you the same.

Now if your question is about a fling? 😂😂😂 That's a different story🤣. That ain't no problem... We can help you out in a heartbeat 💯😂

[Melvinb6521]

Haha if you wanna be “Mrs. Steal your man” good, then you need to be talking to me lol.


I’ll put you on game. Send me a follow and let’s get a dm going and we’ll see what you got, and I’ll show you how to get more. 😁


Flirting is all about owning the conversation and the room. Owning the whole environment. Once you make it yours, you can have your way. It takes wit and charm and precision.


I’ll be waiting 😉

[Jacobthedude]

Well as a girl u can just be like really friendly joke around and look for reasons to touch. A hand on the arm or shoulder, go in for hugs. Like ur looking for excuses for physical contact that get the message across. And just little compliments nothing over the top but if u compliment him once or twice everytime u see him ull stand out

[Anonymous]

Um basically do a lot of eye contact and smiling. Ask them about themselves ya kno.
Usually people flirt by complimenting the other person or like snarky remarks ya kno

[MannMitAntworten]

This would be far easier in person. See if you can find someone local to you to help you with your, “game”.

[locutus9999]

pick lines do not really work... use your body to comunicate... keep eye contact... feel flirtatious, dont talk flirtatious. you body will do the rest.

[Guffrus]

Stop caring about the outcome.

[InferiorElegy]

Nope, I can't flirt at all so I can't help.

[knight2468]

The first flirting don’t flirt directly be wise