Do these conversation starters stand out? do you think they are cute or make you smile? are all of them good & what is the best one?

[CurlyGirl42]

they are all very bad.. please no hearts or emotions in a first message. Do not go crazy on the compliments on the looks. Can just say she looks pretty/cute, have a nice smile or so.
Refer to something in the profile. Do not try to guess what she is like or think that you will fit well together before you have exchanged any messages.
If you want to get to know someone: TRY TO GET TO KNOW THEM. Ask them something, be curious.

[Hangry22]

It surely won't work with me but i am sure that girl you're after is a sappy one so go on

[Rose00]

Noooooo please don’t send this to her lol. It could use a lot of work make it short and sweet. You don’t need to ask for permission that gives authority to the female and she will say yes or no. It made me uncomfortable and I did cringe. I thought it was too much don’t start with my bad couldn’t help... I felt I was reading a social awkward teenager that doesn’t know how to talk to girls. Don’t make it complicated say if your going to a coffee shop to study or the park with your dog or the mall to run errands. Because you already have to go anyways you can ask her to come along with you or meet you there. Tell her a couple days ahead be like hey I’m going to the park to walk my dog would you like to go with me. Or if your going to the mall to go buy something and you need help with picking out outfits for an event. She could be that person. These are examples to make it less awkward because some people can’t talk to the opposite sex to save there life. Or some people suck at communicating and I get that. Also chill on the hearts if your going to include an emoji pick a cool emoji like a planet or something like if you would text anyone else. We are saving you embarrassment we aren’t coming off as mean.

[Anonymous]

You wrote this in your notes to say to a girl?

[Ally247]

They're shit