It's never a question of how. You can't logic your way through social interactions in my opinion. It's an energy thing I think. Sure, you can logically work on social skills, but ultimately, when you learn them, you realize that logic cannot define it.
If someone is hot and aloof you have 2 Choices. Do, or do not.
If you do approach them, than you do it. Maybe you suck. Maybe you're weird. W/e, its guaranteed to fail, ok. But the logic here is, you'll learn from your failure, and maybe next time you'll do better.
Or you simply dont do it because you are afraid of the consequences of being rejected. Feeling like crap. Feeling terrible. Sick yo your stomach or w/e.
There is absolutely no way to simy explain "how" to approach someone for any reason or any type of person. It's all about social skills and in my opinion you just can't logically explain them.
Why? If they act like they don't care about talking to anyone, why should I talk to her, unless it's a bet? Yeah, some push others away, on purpose, because they are afraid to be close to anyone, to let anyone inside, and trust. Maybe they have been burned a few times? WHO hasn't? Young and HOT-looking, thinking she is so great, but I am not at all interested in that shallow crap! I like the wall-flowers, the REALLY INTERESTING ONES, that are afraid to interact, because they don't realize that being smart, and intelligent, and being able to talk about SOMETHING OTHER than the "Dipshit Housewives of Who the FCK Cares" is really great! And, if she wears glasses, that is just a PLUS!!
I just do it. No matter how good they look, who they think they are or whatever they're just another human being living on a big floating rock. Shoot your shot while you're still alive.
I have seen women, over the years, that I have admired for their beauty. Aloof? That depends on your definition. I've seen stuck up, "their shit don't stink". Then there is the woman that is confident in their own skin, ARE approachable, and you might be surprised that they will actually interact with you. Not every woman you meet has to be someone you want to go to bed with. There are some that I like, just because they are pretty and smart and a joy to talk with. Why fuck up a good friendship?
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I don’t approach women they approach me unless they give me a certain signal Then I might do it even though I’m very shy in person
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