How do you approach somebody hot and aloof?

[HiveBee]

It's never a question of how. You can't logic your way through social interactions in my opinion. It's an energy thing I think. Sure, you can logically work on social skills, but ultimately, when you learn them, you realize that logic cannot define it.

If someone is hot and aloof you have 2 Choices. Do, or do not.

If you do approach them, than you do it. Maybe you suck. Maybe you're weird. W/e, its guaranteed to fail, ok. But the logic here is, you'll learn from your failure, and maybe next time you'll do better.

Or you simply dont do it because you are afraid of the consequences of being rejected. Feeling like crap. Feeling terrible. Sick yo your stomach or w/e.

There is absolutely no way to simy explain "how" to approach someone for any reason or any type of person. It's all about social skills and in my opinion you just can't logically explain them.

[JackSmy]

Why? If they act like they don't care about talking to anyone, why should I talk to her, unless it's a bet?
Yeah, some push others away, on purpose, because they are afraid to be close to anyone, to let anyone inside, and trust. Maybe they have been burned a few times? WHO hasn't?
Young and HOT-looking, thinking she is so great, but I am not at all interested in that shallow crap!
I like the wall-flowers, the REALLY INTERESTING ONES, that are afraid to interact, because they don't realize that being smart, and intelligent, and being able to talk about SOMETHING OTHER than the "Dipshit Housewives of Who the FCK Cares" is really great!
And, if she wears glasses, that is just a PLUS!!

[Kazzy36]

I just do it. No matter how good they look, who they think they are or whatever they're just another human being living on a big floating rock. Shoot your shot while you're still alive.

[Siren777]

Same... I don't have the time nor the energy! Lol Someone hot & aloof won't even be bothered.

[Meldrum]

I have seen women, over the years, that I have admired for their beauty. Aloof? That depends on your definition. I've seen stuck up, "their shit don't stink". Then there is the woman that is confident in their own skin, ARE approachable, and you might be surprised that they will actually interact with you. Not every woman you meet has to be someone you want to go to bed with. There are some that I like, just because they are pretty and smart and a joy to talk with. Why fuck up a good friendship?

[Iron_Man]

I don’t approach women they approach me unless they give me a certain signal Then I might do it even though I’m very shy in person

[Frank_Woods]

Hey man, love isn't going to happen just by you talking about it. Get out there and get what you want. Be yourself and show him how hot you are.

[JSmuve]

They same way you approach any other person. Someone being aloof isn't an excuse to at least try.

[Twenty2]

I don't have energy for that. Cold people make me not wanna talk and I love talking so it's not a good match.

[msc545]

Very carefully and slowly. When you speak to someone in this state, you make less eye contact, and speak very slowly.

[Tstrbrainer]

I have no idea, usually I don't approach women in real life

[Avicenna]

With confidence. Start a convo.

[Spade07]

Tell him you had a dream about him.

[beebella]

I don't approach them.

[Gwenhwyfar]

I don’t. I let them approach me if they want.

[jasco]

I just say hey how ya doing

[IHateBeingaMan]

well women normally never approach men

[Dchrls78104]

Being aloof is not hot. Do not approach.

[Juxtapose]

I don't like to cold approach so I don't.

[Jamie05rhs]

That's right. You don't.

[tghbvcfrtfg]

i just walk up to them like a normal person

[Skaterboi2]

Why don’t you