If we get turned on by someone who rejects us....is it always just low self esteem?

I can understand the concept of challenge. But really, I feel like the girls I felt the most attracted too are the ones who have rejected me at some point. They usually don't do this in the beginning, but later.

Yes I do mentally dwell on this.

Is it just a self esteem issue that I'm like this?
If we get turned on by someone who rejects us....is it always just low self esteem?
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