oowe that made me sad lol and nawl like wen you feel guilty and bad because you looked up and seen your true colors also you read her mind that she was uncomfortable being a cuddy buddy so where you but he finally realized his mistake he never stuck to his words but this time was different he told my friend he won't nun to to do with me because it was wrong we wunt together and that he don't wanna text or call me now days before it happened I said how do I know if ure really mad at me and dnt wanna f*** with me
he said that he would block me and remove me as a friend on fbook none of that has happened I was blocked one time he still was calling me and talking to me lol so I don't know wt to think we go bak and forth but this time is different he was chasing me 3years and thisyear was the year I finally gave him my attention
as in a guy you been chasing you for 3 years and this year you gave him your attention and he decides to change up on you when he sees you because he wanted to try the cuddy buddy out but looks up at one day and sees his true colors and notice his big mistake but feels guilty and bad and knows he wrong but want to stay away from you and run away from you you get it now lol? I'm asking if you leave a guy alone in difficult sittuation will it drive him crazy like everyone says it does? shud I give moredetals
you have been after a guy for 3 years. meaning you wanted m, & he didn't want you?then, you ignored him, & he ignored you? so that you have to chase him again?
lmao that was funny and no he been chasin me for 3 years errysince 09 this year I'm just now giving him my attention I use to stay trytta push him away nothing seems to work
oh. I see. he chased you.3 years later, you are giving him your attention, & now he stopped chasing u. so you ignore him, & so now you want to know if that will make him chase you?if he stopped talking to you, once you gave him attention, he does not respect you. he is in it for the chase, it seems. I'm sorry.
lol no I don't ignore him everything I did to him it seem like he doing to me lol he been trying to talk and get my attention since 09 this is 011 the year I finally talked to him I use to try to push him away nothing worked lol
he chased you? now you chase him? you used to push him away & now you're talking to him.. & he's distant?
i don't chase guys and yes I never thought il like him though and no he's not distant lol
I don't understand what you are asking, I'm sorry. How can he come to talk to yo, to get you to chase him?
im just asking if you are in any difficult situation like what I just explained to you is it possible that you can drive a guy crazy if you be silence towards him...it usually works
I stopped taking to the guy I'm in love with when we dated, because I did not want to 'want' to be with anyone. I thought I would get more done on my own, & that it was weak to want another person.it definitely drove ihm crazy& he gets mad at me randomly now. we have had a really difficult time getting things back to just where we can be 'ok' let alone move forward.. I don't know if we ever will be able to. he does not trust me.if I could go back id have never done what I did. I feel HORRIBLE about it
I prefer things to be CLEAR. I only stopped taking to him because I thought I should try not to fall in love. I do not agree with that decision, now, & I regret being (unintentionally) cruel. to him.Why do you want to play games , why not just be normal with him?What are you trying to accomplish?im not judging, id just like to know, what your aim is?
well dam I hate to hear that happening
So... Why do you want him angry or frustrated?
such as lol
so you have done it before lol?
ya, I stopped contacting him & I guess that bruised his ego because he wanted me 2 "fight" 4 him...ugh, dude plz.
how long did you do it lol and did it work
I ignored him because I lost interest. (he was extremely conceited, selfish & cocky) I didn't ignore him because I wanted him 2 chase me. If a guy does NOT like a girl or lost interest, & she ignores him, that's NOT gonna make him like her more or less. I doubt he'd even care.
so cann you give me advice
I'd move on.. I don't like guys who feel as though, your obligated 2 chasing them. NOT worth my time...find sum1 who won't play games & sum1 who is into you as much your into them & treats you like a queen. That's what you deserve, not mind games, lies, & all that bs. hope this helps sweetie.
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im saying if you werent with a guy and he did wrong when you gave him that chance and he did you wrong have you ever left him alone and pretend you didn't care? when you stopped calling and texting him he end up blowing you up? because boys expect for you to run after them like they did u
But if I'm not with a guy why would I care that he did me wrong?
because you liked him and yall became friends with benefits and plus you been knowin each other for years...he liked you at first but he was chasing you and you finally gave him time of the day...
I don't do friends with benefits to avoid bullsh*t like this lol.
lol that's why I tried to push him away lol but sh*t I regret it you ain't lying lol you dnt wanna be in my shoes trust me
no, no I don't. I don't do drama :P
lmao you funny