Girls why don't you so the apporaching?

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Girls why don't you so the apporaching?

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Growing up I remember when girls would flock to me. Now I have to talk to them and they play hard to get. And I ironically girls I don't like or want anything to do with try to get me but girls I like won't say sh*t to me? Why you girls too good to talk? LOL got guys being all nervous and shy Because we don't want to say anything stupid.

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walalalaa333
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Girls and guys are both afraid of approaching that's why! But I guess in society as we grow older, women expect the males to make the first move. I know its unfair... but gottaa take the chance! and if a girl plays hard to get..don't go chasing her :s find someone who will treat you how you deserve to be treated :)

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- Asker
  
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  You speak the truth :)
- walalalaa333
  
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  Yess I doo :)
  
  Andd I read your below comment on the other answer, if that's truee then you don't even have to worry :D
  
  Goodluck anyways though :)
- Asker
  
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  Lol thanks.

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Anonymous

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It goes for girls too. We are afraid of approaching you guys too because we don't want to say something stupid and make a fool of ourselves. That is why it is always the most confident person that does the talking, and honestly, not many girls are 100% confident in themselves

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blufrenzy93
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Maybe your appearance has changed.

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- Asker
  
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  Lmfao is this a diss!? Ya it did change I use to be a cute kid and I'm now a very handsome man.
- blufrenzy93
  
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  lol no, it's not a diss :p
  
  I don't know why you're experiencing this. Some girls will approach a guy and some won't. If you're really feeling a girl, then go get her ! If I really like a guy, then yes, I might be a little shy, but I'll at least try to get his attention.
- Asker
  
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  Thats the thing I know I'm handsome and I'm very well groomed. I take good care of myself. But anyway when I try to talk to them they always have a man and its easier for me to chill back and have them come to me so I don't have to waste my breath.

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Because there's plenty of guys who approach these girls so they figure why approach a guy when there's others who will do that. Its not fair but in most cases its true. Personally I don't care that much about have a guy to approach him and I'm also old fashioned. If I see a guy who I find attractive then I'll smile at him and catch his attention by that to make him know that its okay to approach me if he wants to.

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