Why do people think it takes balls/courage to ask someone out? Isn't it ridiculous? it's really pathetic. it does NOT take balls/courage to ask a girl/guy out. it's easy. why do people on here act like it's difficult? why do they act like it's such a big deal? if you are too afraid to talk to a girl/guy you're probably too afraid to sleep at night. seriously, it's not even funny. people on here act like it's easier to wrestle sharks than to talk to your crush.