So the thing I've always heard is that if you stop thinking about a girl in regards to having her as a girlfriend she'll respond better to you. And that makes sense to me. The problem is that it is really hard to do that for me. I see a girl and if I find her attractive I naturally try and talk to her. I've noticed that when I'm talking to someone who has a boyfriend I'm pretty funny and I talk to them like there just a friend. Is there anyway to help me stop thinking about a relationship with a cute girl?