I wrote a song for a girl in my youth group who may or may not like me. I'm going to play the song for her then ask her out this Sunday. I was wondering what the best approach to this would be beforehand, earlier in the day. Should I be friendly and get to know her better? or should I flirt with her? or should I do a combination of both? And another issue is lack of time to talk to her in person outside of Sunday. So, what do you think I should do?