What is the best way to get out of the friend zone with a girl?

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What is the best way to get out of the friend zone with a girl?

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I really like this girl and we have a great time together all the time, but she says she only sees me as a friend. How do I get her to see me as a boyfriend? I would like to still have a great time with her like I always do, so I don't want to fake being an ass to her or anything like that, do you know what I mean?

As much as I want guy feedback, I would also love girl feedback, so I can know what they are feeling and stuff like that.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!

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You get a girl to see you as a boyfriend by initially avoiding the friend zone. Once you're in it, you have to risk ruining the friendship to get what you want. You avoid the friend zone by making your intentions subtle but clear when you first meet.

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depends on why she doesn't see you as boyfriend material. do you know the answer to that?

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  I think its because she knows a lot about me. I also told her in the beginning that I didn't want a relationship in general, which was stupid because now I wanted one all along. I just said I didn't so she didn't get suspicious. So I kind of put myself in this trap and need to find a way to get out of it. I also don't flirt enough with her. We act like friends, not like two people testing each other out, you know what I mean?
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  well I guess first thing you need to do is kinda mention to her casually that you are tired of being single and want a girlfriend. that way she knows you're gonna be serious about it. that should fix that issue. does she have a bf? or someone you know she likes?
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  Well she has a boyfriend now, but things aren't going well, and she tells me everything that happens between them because she trusts me greatly. She knows I love her as a best friend but since she's still with this other guy she still wants be loyal to him until its completely over with him. I did tell her that I want a girlfriend and she knows how serious I am about it because me and her tell each other everything. Ever since I told her that I can feel that she's thinking about me.
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  well that's excellent! just continue to be supportive and be open with her if she asks you if you like her or think about her or any kind of question like that...now isn't the time to hold back. Good luck! keep us updated :)
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  Okay here's the latest update. Yesterday was her birthday and she turned 18, which is a big birthday for anyone. So I talked to her on the phone and throughout the night on Facebook. She said she's really happy that I'm there for her. She also told me that she thinks I'm the only person that cares about it being her birthday, and she said that she feels that her boyfriend doesn't even care. So far today she hasn't spoken to me because I think she's thinking about me. What do you think?
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  she might be feeling guilty about her feelings for you or she might be questioning what to do about things. just be sure you don't push it and be understanding but open about how you feel IF she asks.
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  When you say guilty, do you mean she doesn't want to have feelings for me? I'm definitely aware of not pushing it, cause I don't want to come off the wrong way. Oh, and she just texted me, which could mean something, but I don't know what though. But I know that she was awake early this morning because she posted on her wall on Facebook, so I do think she was trying to avoid talking to me. But I giver her her space, and I just want things figured out cause its driving me crazy.
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  maybe more torn than guilty but if she's a good person she's going to feel guilty dating one guy but really being connected to another.
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  Wow you make a great point. I feel that exact situation happening. She's with one guy but has a connection with another! Well I'm going to see her tomorrow, so I hope to move things along without being pushy. I'm just going to be me and see where it goes. I'll definitely keep you posted :)

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kheserthorpe Master · Accepted Answer

What you are essentially asking is 'how can I make a girl who knows me pretty well and does not find me attractive, find me attractive'. Its pretty unlikely.

Your best bet would be to work out, be more mature, be more comfortable with being sexual, dress better, focus on your own life goals, not be needy and date other girls.

Interestingly, this is what you should be doing anyway, so it doesn't really matter if it gets you out of the friendzone with this girl.

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