I also tend to go overboard with romance. I am the kinda guy when it come to romance you never know what I am going to do. I would bye 200 to 300 in candelas make a very nice dinner wine soft music to dance to. Whether in the back yard or in the front room of off in some field or park with just candles no other lights even thou I am very shy guy I DO know romance and will go the extra mile. how can I use this to meet women I now I have a lot to offer.