Is it wrong to have a crush on my best friend?

[Kittie]

Ask your close friend if she will be alright with you dating him. Some people don't mind if someone dates their ex or just that ex but some people are not comfortable no matter what. If you still end up dating him, you at least was a friend to her to let her know beforehand and let her know asap if she wasn't okay. No one can stop other people dating if it happens but it's polite to let her know that you tried and cared instead of backstabbing her. In life you can't have everything, but if she can still be friends with you and you get the guy, that's awesome. Maybe she was your cupid for your life.

But if you're under 18, that's not very a looooong time to not feel special towards someone. There have been couples who have not felt like that for years but it can pop up again later, so don't be sad if you can't get with this guy. It might take someone else to get that love-spark that just happens to not be in your school at the moment.

[Gone_But_Not_Lost]

Well, honestly I think you need to keep this to yourself for a while. Probably until he stops dating his current girlfriend. Sorry, but trust me, even if you did get him now, you won't find it to be as much of a victory as you'd like it to be. So wait on that. In the mean time you can always do nice things for him to show him you care. Maybe drop SUBTLE hints that you like him. But there's not a lot more about this that you can do.

Maybe you'll get lucky and he won't be with her for too long. But when they do break up, you can always make your moves then. In the mean time, I repeat... wait. Sorry I can't help more.

Good luck.

[thephilosopher]

theres nothing wrong with having a crush on someone but it is if you want to date him while you know he has a girlfriend

[BCRanger10]

It's fine if you have a crush on him, but you can't act on it. That would be wrong.