I shortened this question. Simply put a coworker kissed 6 weeks ago, I later asked her out: she said she would think about, at one time yes, but that she had talked herself out of it. Between the kiss and me asking her out 2 people told her relationships in the office would give her a reputation. Below are the details, what do you think?
Since I asked her out and she said no (I'll think about it):
- when she sees me she waves even when I don't see her, but always looks down after
- we chat and I can sometimes make her blush
- She will occasionally go out of her way to give me a disinterested "hi"
- she gave me her hand to look at her paper cut (from the day before and I could not see it)
- if I get flirty in instant message she stops
- I asked her lunch group for a recommendation and she gave me one very fast and then looked down.
- I asked a casual friend of hers what the deal was where she ignores me one day and engages me the next. I told her that it is ridiculous. Her friend said she was confused. Evidently they spoke as she pretty much engages me everyday now.
- She is a happy girl, but around me she always seems confused
Our last interaction the day after I asked the other girl out.
- she teased me in a fun way
- if I saw her face she looked away bored then as she walked by she would play with her hair
- if she was with her friends she would turn her back to me and flip her hair, while her friends would look at me
- at lunch she came late and sat outside our group however, I noticed that if I said something to anyone she would look over and listen
- If I asked her a question she would talk fast, hyper, and short
- she later sat next to me when people left. She did this when there was a seat across from me next to the guy I thought she was seeing.
- she did talk to that guy for 30 seconds but both looked at me the whole time.
- she did glance at him 2 times as he was across from us from the waist up.
- she accidentally touched my leg when she was waving her hands, then put them in her lap and stared at where she touched me.
- her friend asked me who I was going on vacation with me this past week (I never talk to this girl, but the coworker knows that I took my ex away last Thanksgiving )
Since I asked her out and she said no (I'll think about it):
- when she sees me she waves even when I don't see her, but always looks down after
- we chat and I can sometimes make her blush
- She will occasionally go out of her way to give me a disinterested "hi"
- she gave me her hand to look at her paper cut (from the day before and I could not see it)
- if I get flirty in instant message she stops
- I asked her lunch group for a recommendation and she gave me one very fast and then looked down.
- I asked a casual friend of hers what the deal was where she ignores me one day and engages me the next. I told her that it is ridiculous. Her friend said she was confused. Evidently they spoke as she pretty much engages me everyday now.
- She is a happy girl, but around me she always seems confused
Our last interaction the day after I asked the other girl out.
- she teased me in a fun way
- if I saw her face she looked away bored then as she walked by she would play with her hair
- if she was with her friends she would turn her back to me and flip her hair, while her friends would look at me
- at lunch she came late and sat outside our group however, I noticed that if I said something to anyone she would look over and listen
- If I asked her a question she would talk fast, hyper, and short
- she later sat next to me when people left. She did this when there was a seat across from me next to the guy I thought she was seeing.
- she did talk to that guy for 30 seconds but both looked at me the whole time.
- she did glance at him 2 times as he was across from us from the waist up.
- she accidentally touched my leg when she was waving her hands, then put them in her lap and stared at where she touched me.
- her friend asked me who I was going on vacation with me this past week (I never talk to this girl, but the coworker knows that I took my ex away last Thanksgiving )
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