How can I become the ideal man for every woman?

[Anonymous]

In general:

1. Start working out. Don't worry about fast results. Just make it a routine part of your lifestyle and the results will come eventually. It'll really start to feel good if you make yourself stick with it for a while, too. Also, it can only help your confidence.

2. Quit trying to become the ideal man for EVERY woman. You can't do that. Nobody can. Instead, if you meet a girl you feel like you don't have much in common with, don't act like it's a shortcoming on your part. It's just a lack of similarities that's nobody's fault. You would probably be happier with somebody else.

3. I don't know how to go about this, but just try to get more comfortable with every day conversation. If you're confident enough with being able to talk to people and have confidence in your sense of humor, you're pretty much there.

4. Confidence, or the appearance of being confident, is important. This doesn't mean being cocky or overconfident. It's really more about not seeming overly hesitant, unsure, or insecure. You can still be low-key and seem confident. You don't have to be the most talkative person in the world - just smile every now and then and try to relax when you do. People can sort of sense when you're hesitant or unsure how to act because you doubt yourself too much. Confident people have quirks just like everybody else, and as long as they're nice and don't give other people reasons to dislike them, they're just seen as harmless quirks.

You can also think of confidence as appearing to be comfortable in your own skin. Sometimes it just helps not to think about things you can't change, if you can manage it. For instance, I'm not the greatest looking guy in the world, but it's not something that's ever really on my mind. If you can manage not to worry about little things that are out of your control, it's like having fewer processes running at the same time in Windows. Therefore, you can focus your attention on conversation or whatever you're doing at the moment, and the positive aspects of your personality can shine through a little more.

Hopefully some of those pointers help a little bit. If not, I'm sorry. I'll admit that I just sort of wrote down what I could think of, but I'm not an expert by any means. Good luck with everything!

[Ugliness]

You can't become the ideal man for every woman because each person has their own ideals.

Besides, stop being so greedy. All you need is ONE woman. Be the ideal man for HER.

[Anonymous]

Not all women will like all of the same things, but there is one thing that all women tend to agree on: good hygiene. That's almost the only universal standard.

[Ninjaturtle969]

you can't be the ideal man every women wants, being yourself seems to work for me

[dIO_oIb]

A perfect human being: Man in search of his ideal of perfection. Nothing less.

[CND1992]

obviously don't play the girl you want...dont talk to other girls saying the same stuff that you are too...dont be a huge flirt with other girls because it does bother us...and do not just talk aobut sex or expect it ffrom her