Okay, so first of all I see my boyfriend about once every 2-3 weeks (He lives in a different city) but anyways, every time we see each other we both run out of things to say quite a bit. I try to come up with things to say, but I never can think of anything. Why? I can tell he's not shy, and I know I'm not shy, but for some reason I'm only shy around him. How can you keep a conversation going and get to know him better?