But she says she isn't ready for a relationship, but will be soon? I'm very confused by what she is trying to say.. I'll give you some background about me and her. I'm 16, she's 15. We've been talking and hanging out now for 4 1/2 weeks. About a week ago I told her how I felt about her and how was unlike any girl I've ever met. She had told me how I was unlike any boy she's ever met, and how I make her feel special about herself and no one has ever done that before. We talk to each other and hang out every hour of the day. So this leads me up to about 3 days ago we were hooking up and she said that "I was the perfect guy for her, and that there is no reason why we shouldn't be dating." But she told me a day before that, that she wasn't ready to date me but would be very soon? I am very confused hopefully you guys can help me... If it means I have to move on I guess that's just what has to happen. It won't be easy, but that's what will have to happen.