so next week I should be meeting this girl I went to school with last year for coffee. we didn't talk to much but I guess you could call us friends since we would say hi and make small talk in the hallways. anyway, I haven't really talked to many girls at all, and now that this is about to happen I'm really nervous because I don't know what to talk to her about. I'm living a pretty boring life at the moment so I don't really have much to talk about. should I just talk to her about herself?