We had a great first date, and he called me every day after. We then made plans to do something on a Friday, and he left me a text at 2 AM stating he couldn't make it. I will admit the plans were a bit ambitious for a second date, and I was feeling apprehensive myself. He finally called and apologized, but he did the same thing when he heard I worked part-time at a friend's bar. He" jokingly" stated that I could meet someone there. He has been married twice and cheated on both times. I'm thinking he has trust issues. But why can't he just tell me it's not going to work out instead of just falling off the face of the earth? I would not in any way have tried to talk him out of it.