he doesn't mean no touching initially. he means no touching. I don't understand what you mean by it depending on how comfortable you are with the guy. if you don't touch how is it a relationship? how is that not a close friendship?
That's before a relationship. Besides, there's different things you can do...
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So it is bad
Well touching makes me nervous I wish a girl would be cool with that
but that's a friendship. I'm not saying you won't find a girl whos cool with it. I just don't see what makes it a relationship, if you don't touch. even asexual relationships-i thought they still like hug and hold each other. if its what you want-you can't be the only one.. so I'm sure there are girls out there. check the asexual support sites. they wil probably be closer to what you want. but id still like to know, what a relationship means to you. I'm not judging, I'm just confused & interested ;).
What is an asexual relationship?
its a relationship where people agree they both do not w ant sex. they are not waiting, or trying it out. they have decided in life they do not want sex. so no one is expecting them to have sex. and they do not expect their partner to have sex.they may hug or cuddle-tho I guess some do not want to touch. its a sort of partnership without the sexual side of relationships. You may get some answers for what you want. I can try to find you a link. or you can just google ' asexual relationship support'
What makes it a relationship, if you don't touch. You could just be pen pals.
In a relationship a guy doesn't have to feel all over a girls body and I don't have to feel all over his for it to be a relationship, a hug or a hand hold is enough I still know that he loves me, and how can I make a good relationship with him if he is uncomfortable with me feeling all over him or vise versa.
he doesn't want to touch period. its not just not pawing her. he doesn't want to touch. that's a friendship. not a romantic relationship. what's romantic about it. there's no physical contact period.he never said anything about being all over anyone. you made that up because you don't like it. its about touch. period.
I WOULD NOT MIND IT.PERIOD!
So that is bad if touching makes me nervous and I would rather not do it
but.. what is a relationship without touch ? I don't understand. what do you want?what kind of relationship would you like to have?
I want to date but non of the touching
What does that mean? Hw is that different than being best friends? You want a close friendship with a girl, I think. I don't see what makes it dating. People date when they want to see if they like each other to have sex, or get into a relationship-which usually means close plus sex. or get married.What does dating mean to you? Just tell me what you WANT. I know yo don't want to touch. OK. but what do you want? How do you see a relationship. What makes it a relationship-to you?
It is more for the companionship and just being there for eac other
Hugs I cous do sometimes but holding is a lot
like what do you mean by holding like watching a movie together and you holding her ir just at random holding each other?
I would not really want to hold ever
oh in the first of the realationship I see not holding really but not holding ever would feel just like friends personally
Just friends bummer touching goes way out of my comfort zone. I wishi could meet a girl that wants what I do
im sure you can there's 6 billion people in this world one has to be the right one for you:)
It seems like girls like touching and I would rather keep our hands to ourselves
girls like affection & holding is a part of that
So we can't just hang out and stuff but still be exclusive
you can but make sure to say that's its a date secretly do you know what I mean?
Instead if asking er do want to go out some time say do you want to go out on a date with me
Would she expect touching then or expect me to touch her and be flirty?
Not really on the first date
I guess I have never dated before but I suppose it is obvious.
its not girls. guys like to touch-usually. that's certainly not a girl thing.anyways on a date your not wanted to be all over her. but if your actually in a relationship, it'd feel kind of like you don't trust someone that you can't touch. but maybe ull want to after you get ti know her.Why don't you like to touch-at all. by the way did you want sex? if you want sex, then I guess lots of relationships are like that. little touching & lots of sex. but no touching, no sex. well its rare.but you can find it, I'm sure.
I am not reall a sexual person