I met a girl through chat and she discovered that I'm interested in her and she said she is too (since we talked a lot). meeting her in real life was hard because I thought she wouldn't like my physical appearance and my personality around people. she's a very beautiful girl, she could have anyone, I'm handsome but I never really see myself that way and I don't work out. when we talked in person and she could clearly realize that I'm straightforward, i.e. I don't act ''mysterious'', she saw that I have emotional problems and that I'm not as ''strong'' as men should be, that I have issues with my father and that my college is so demanding I don't have time for enough social life. after all that, why would she still be interested in me?