I have been someway involved with this guy for years now. Once I went to college we became distant and he got a new girlfriend. They are having problems so naturally I started developing feelings for him again. We had a long talk and I sum up his words as "I care about you a lot but I don't want to be with you". This really upset me and he knows that. How can you care so much about someone but want nothing to do with them anymore? Bottom line is how do I change this situation to where he does want to be with me.