Where or how do I find a woman?

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Where or how do I find a woman?

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I have been single for over five years. I haven't had sex, been on a date, or even been touched by a woman since my ex dumped me five years ago. I have recently been very lonely and in need of physical contact. Please tell me how I could find a girl quickly that would at least cuddle with me and maybe watch a movie or something. Yes I would love to have sex but I don't think I would be OK with a one night stand, but I really would like to at least have some physical contact. Please help, I feel that I am at the end of my rope.

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Thanks for the help everyone. I guess I just need to figure it out or shut up. I will most likely be alone forever and I just need to accept that. But once again, thanks.

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Stacyzee | 1.2K opinions shared on Flirting topic.
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-Create a dating profile (instead of waiting for responses from someone, put yourself out there and contact people first.)

-Go to bars/clubs.

-Join some type of group (whether it be a sporting activity, or checkers group.)

-Put yourself out there (by approaching women through everyday aspects of life, whether you're just walking down the street, or waiting for a bus) be bold, and intiate a conversation with a woman and ask for her number.

If you don't put yourself out there and hide behind a curtain, finding a woman will continue to be impossible. Doing these things, at least your chances will be greater of accomplishing such. I wish you nothing but the best.

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starksc
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I know it's corny but I met my boyfriend on pof.com (plenty of fish). It's free and for people 18 and up. That where I met my boyfriend (serious relationship) and we've been dating 5 months today.

It's not for everyone, but I wasn't excessively looking either. Besides I hear that it's the new thing meeting your partner online.

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- wes5566
  
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  I've tried the online thing. I can never get responses and I'm fed up with wasting my money on them and not getting anything. Online dating sucks for me because the ration of women to men is usually around 50:1. So unless the guy is really hot, or post a fake pic, the girl won't respond. But thanks for your help.
- starksc
  
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  Yeah, that's why I wanted to try a completely FREE one. I always hate it when you are on the so-called free and then you can't message people that haven't paid for the upgrade.
  
  This one is completely free and the ratio is actually fair. My boyfriend and both my uncle had a lot of replies, and my uncle isn't the best look either. This is what I said to myself, if it's free with literally no costs, then why the heck not? Doesn't hurt to try.

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sharktank
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With your atitude and not listening to good advice...

Strip clubs, prostitues and escorts. Luckily they are usually hot.

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noobseaplenty | 53 opinions shared on Flirting topic.
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you just need to create emotion in women

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DishLady | 1.2K opinions shared on Flirting topic. Guru · Accepted Answer

You need to shake off the desperate tone in your request. To FIND a girl you need to look and sound like you know what to do with a girl when you see her. The scent of nervous desperation or neediness is easy to detect.

NEXT, identify five great things about yourself and five things you want to find in a potential girl. DON'T just settle for whoever can give you a cuddle. Make a list and stick to it.

Now, what are your favorite hobbies? Go to places where you can meet people with the same interests. If you're religious, go look in the church youth groups; if you like to read, go to the local bookstore or coffee shop... Avoid bars and clubs where you'll only find the shallow "boppy" gals (or the women of more substance who went there with a partner).

Rooting for your success!

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