It it bad to not approach these girls?

[Belgie]

Yes, you are.

Let's list the reasons why...

1) It makes no allowance for when girls are interested in you, but you can't tell.

2) It makes no allowance for the fact that guys can create and generate interest, by approaching a girl and being interesting.

3) It cuts down drastically on the amount of girls you talk to, which means you don't often get the chance to practice your chatting and flirting skills. So when the girl you do like comes along, you aren't as skilled as you would probably like to be.

4) If she's not interested in you, then you have nothing to lose. It's one of those times when you can be the most fearless when talking a girl.

[G_GTom]

Seems like a good idea to me. It's your life. Do you want to waste it on a woman who shows no interest? Why would you want to waste you life like that? That time could be spent learning something new, spending time with your friends, etc.

[upood]

Yes. because Myself and most of my girlfriends, who are considered attractive, don't approach or sometimes even show interest because we're shy or think the guy is not interested so you shoul definitely approach, you may be missing out. don't play the whole "she won't act interested so I won't either"game as all of you lose out :) life's short, nothing bad will come from saying hello and smiling PROMISE

[Cynthia325]

I think it makes sense, but there was a guy I was interested in and I didn't show it, I had a lot of other things going on, but if he approached me I would have totally gave him a chance. I later told him that I had a thing for him and his reply was " really? I would of never thought" so in some cases you really never know.

[justlilly]

Do you at least talk to them if they are someone you are around a lot? Honestly, I have fallen for guys who I never would have been interested in if it were not for the fact that I was around them a lot and got to know them and see how amazing they really are.

[l-hedoniste]

If she's interested, she'll show it. You're correct in not wasting your time on the rest.

[Modernman2006]

You should always approach women that you are attractive to. You never know what can happen when you smile and say hi so yes it can be bad not to approach women in your way

[Anonymous]

doesn't matter to me, its your choice, your life. do what you want to do

[Anonymous]

Actually, that's a realistic philosophy