How was it when you first met your girlfriend/boyfriend ? Who approached whom ? Did they "approacher" mess up his initial "lines" so to speak ? I'm asking because most of my friends seem to say when they first met their girlfriend/boyfriend they never ever imagined they would end up together . In many cases , the guy generally approached and most of the time he messes up the first approach , but the girl thinks it's funny and they start going out , does this apply to any of you all ?