How can I get over him?

[kannan]

as to your mind what happen to your mind? go and find the right ones.even after 3years you have no response the what more you want?your life time. Or check with yourself what lacking in you or what is the factor in him that attracted you to him,check yourself and if you see any adjustable thaings on you to make him attract ie way of approach, style of dressing,way of speaking etc if you still wants to continue.If not teach your mind to find out someone with same your attracive quality and responding one.

[gonyr]

doesn't have to be so complicated. he didn't like you, and its not like you were together for three years. move on, be social and meet new people.

you don't gotta change anything about yourself just realize your chances with this guy are over, and find someone else to like. put yourself out there and maybe you'll hook someone.

if you guys actually had a relationship than I can understand it'd be hard to get over, but it was just a like, and a onesided one at that.

[AzureGirl]

I've had that before, I just tried looking at him in a different way, like as a really good friend or something. Of course it also helped that the one I liked had a girlfriend he was planning on moving in with and the fact she was prengnat at the time, But I stopped talking to him and I didn't see him. Gradually I just thought of him as a friend and got over him, which I didn't discover until I discoved I liked another guy a year after the previous guy moved.

[Anonymous]

*Make a list of allt hings you don´t like about him and focus on them, he is not perfect!

*Spend time doing other things, go to the gym, join a new club, make a trip with your friends

*Start dating new guys, ignore the other one and stop focussing on him... just stop thinking about him, little by little you will see you deserve (and will find) a much better one than him...