As recently as a year ago I had real anxiety when approaching/talking to women. I'm a lot better now. However, if I meet a woman in in a club or bar, or at a social event, I do sometimes find it hard to go in for the kill (that was maybe not the best way of putting it). Once the conversation is going well and there is evidence of mutual interest it is still difficult to escalate. I am looking for advice on how to keep my cool when going for the first kiss.