Soo confused... am I dumb?

What does it mean when a woman I have been dating for seven years says "she doesn't want to commit to a relationship and only wants friends with benefits ." So I told her to move on... I'm not sure if I'm stupid or right on for sticking to my principles. I want to settle down and have a family. The friends with benefits doesn't work for me and I feel like it's just a way to keep me from seeking a real relationship.
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I wanted to put a ring on it years ago... She never wanted to commit. So I'm just gonna move on. Thanks for the perspective.
Soo confused... am I dumb?
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