my ex left me for my friend back in January. i was with my said friend when she called him last Friday , he said he was busy and would call her tommorow, she sounded pissed... she texted me an hour later asking me how i was and if i was dating anyone and just catching up with me. she keeps wanting to stay friends but i feel like she just comes to me when she isn't getting anything from her current boyfriend. a lot of rumors have been spreading around and word on the street is she has been withholding affection from my friend (no PDA) and has been lying about us by saying we hook up some days (fucked up right?). I've been trying to avoid her because this is getting out of hand and just immature but she won't leave me alone. so am i a backup or is she wanting me again?