Why do women act like this?

Question

Hey, I'm a 21 year old guy. This is my predicament.. Here me out, so I've always been a shy guy, maybe social late bloomer. I've had a few friends with benefits here and there. For the most part I view myself as a loyal, down to earth guy.. Aside from my personality. I'm apparently a pretty good looking guy I've been told most of my life, younger women my age , older women, gay men, and even straight men for that matter. "I assume somebody will want to see "pic proof"

at a younger age girls seemed to be flirty and a bit more friendly towards me. although up until I turned 18 I was super super shy so I missed a lot. Anyways women nowadays as I've gotten older seem to be really unfriendly towards me. I have to carry most of the conversation, they act aloof in general. i do catch women looking at me frequently, but when I catch their gaze they don't smile. But I'm not a creeper, I'm friendly guy, but women just seem to act disinterested in my advances and seem to be intimidated maybe, even when I first meet them. It's just hard for me to continue with pursuing women if they act so cold.. why do they seem to auto reject me even before I open my mouth? or do they think I'm conceited? It's kind of giving me a blow to my self esteem. Thanks for input. Much appreciated

Answer 1

BloodyCheeseBurger

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They're probably intimidated by how good looking you are. I wouldn't worry about it too much. If they don't like you it's their loss. Thats kind of bitchy of them to ignore you. Oh and by the way nice picture, you look good :p

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Darknessx95

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intimidated? So kind of like they write me off right away? That's kind of Unfortunate, and thank you (:
BloodyCheeseBurger

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Lol your welcome. Well sometimes girls think when they look at an attractive guy "He could never go for me" or "He would reject me". I'm not saying that all girls think that way but a few do.

Answer 2

Darknessx95

intimidated? So kind of like they write me off right away? That's kind of Unfortunate, and thank you (:

Answer 3

BloodyCheeseBurger

Lol your welcome. Well sometimes girls think when they look at an attractive guy "He could never go for me" or "He would reject me". I'm not saying that all girls think that way but a few do.

Answer 4

BuchitaBuchys | 1K opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

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I'm judgmental and you are attractive and look like either a womanizer or a "pretty boy". Neither of those I'd approach no matter how attractive he may be.

Sorry. That's just the look you have from first glance.

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Darknessx95

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So they seem to pre judge? I mean I didn't take any offense to what you said. but could that be why they act disinterested or standoffish when I talk to them?
BuchitaBuchys

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Because if I think you're a womanizer, it's gonna take more than sweet words to convince me you're not. I'll just think you're trying to play me too
Darknessx95

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Okay gotcha thank you for the input!
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BuchitaBuchys

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I'm sorry to think this way, but I won't lie to you.

And you're welcome

Answer 5

Darknessx95

So they seem to pre judge? I mean I didn't take any offense to what you said. but could that be why they act disinterested or standoffish when I talk to them?