She has a boyfriend but has feelings for me?

Question

So basically this girl at my High school confessed to me that she has strong feelings for me and I also did but she has a boyfriend, she always catches me staring at her and I also catch her so the same, the other day was the first day back from New Years holidays and her and her friend kept appearing wherever I was in the building and several times by herself, I am so confused! What do I tell her or approach a situation like this. PS her boyfriend is an over protective nutter that forced her to block me on everything but I still talk to her when I see her.

We have relaxing text convos from midnight to 4-5am and she has opened up with even the most sensitive things but my secretively kind of drives her insane because she can read what I'm feeling.
Also, she is not good looking but I find her so attractive so she knows I do not like her that way (she is beautiful btw)

Answer 1

RJGraveyTrain

Master

Until she is single, in my opinion, you back off.

If she's okay getting close to you, regardless of her relationship, there is no guaranteeing you won't have the same issues with her later. Also, her boyfriend doesn't sound like he's being an "over-protective nutter" considering you two have been being inappropriate. However if you're concerned about abuse, that might be a time to step in, otherwise you're overstepping serious boundaries here and so is she.

I say you tell her that you two have to keep things friendly and appropriate if and until she becomes single. Period.

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malteserdreamer

+1 y
Thank you this helped a lot!! I think this is the best thing for me to do right now
RJGraveyTrain

+1 y
I'm glad I could help.

Answer 2

malteserdreamer

Thank you this helped a lot!! I think this is the best thing for me to do right now

Answer 3

RJGraveyTrain

I'm glad I could help.

Answer 4

Anonymous

If she can read ya, there's no point in trying to hide.

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Answer 5

unknownpoet

Xper 5

means you can make your move. google boyfriend destroy pua. thank me later ;)

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malteserdreamer

+1 y
I don't want to give her them kind of movements if she has a boyfriend
unknownpoet

+1 y
don't be stupid. she will brake up because of you. you are actually helping her. don't you like her? do you think she's happy with that asshole? what kind of fucked up person are you for letting someone suffer like that without doing anything? just do what I said. you will thank me.
malteserdreamer

+1 y
Nah I will back off for now, if i jeopardise her relationship who knows if that is what she'll do to me
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unknownpoet

+1 y
girls don't like pussies and that lack of insecurity. she needs your help she's a ladie in distress. but you are such a chicken and you will lose her. guess you are not worth it of her. I hope she finds a great guy that saves her from that monster.
malteserdreamer

+1 y
He is not a monster or bad to her, he is just really paranoid and pissed off that I talk to her until really late. I do not want to make her cheat on her man. She likes me a lot, I will step away until she decides what's best for her
unknownpoet

+1 y
with attitudes like that you will die virgin.
llcool

+1 y
but why didn't you meet her?
malteserdreamer

+1 y
What do you mean IIcool?
llcool

+1 y
she didn't you idiot that's a cop out
malteserdreamer

+1 y
She recently told me she has a boyfriend, since then I watched my every move
malteserdreamer

+1 y
She is not a hoe don't get me wrong

Answer 6

malteserdreamer

I don't want to give her them kind of movements if she has a boyfriend

Answer 7

unknownpoet

don't be stupid. she will brake up because of you. you are actually helping her. don't you like her? do you think she's happy with that asshole? what kind of fucked up person are you for letting someone suffer like that without doing anything? just do what I said. you will thank me.

Answer 8

malteserdreamer

Nah I will back off for now, if i jeopardise her relationship who knows if that is what she'll do to me

Answer 9

unknownpoet

girls don't like pussies and that lack of insecurity. she needs your help she's a ladie in distress. but you are such a chicken and you will lose her. guess you are not worth it of her. I hope she finds a great guy that saves her from that monster.

Answer 10

malteserdreamer

He is not a monster or bad to her, he is just really paranoid and pissed off that I talk to her until really late. I do not want to make her cheat on her man. She likes me a lot, I will step away until she decides what's best for her