I work with nothing but females and half of them do not like me. I have no reason why. I've tried being nice yet nothing. I've tried ignoring yet nothing. I won't show no negative behavior toward them since its the working environment nor will I show they are getting to me. One girl I knew was gonna not like me in the future just by how she would continuously stare at me with an unwelcome look. I will not quit my job because its a great position but how do I deal with this hostility? Why can't girls just get along?
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This may sound cliche, but this is the reason my best friends are always guys and I have mostly guy friends. Once in a blue moon I find some really nice girls that are cool with me, but most times they always end up disliking me, or (not to sound conceited) getting jealous of me, or just finding someone they like better than me. I've been bullied by girls since I was in the 3rd grade and I'm about to be a sophomore in college. I told one of my male coworkers yesterday how I was bullied from elementary to even now and he said he was really surprised and didn't see me as someone who would ever be bullied because I was such a nice person. Half of my coworkers are female though and I love all of them. We all get along really well. I wish I knew them more outside of work.
Honestly, just keep doing you. Keep being nice and just let it roll of your back. I know it's hard because I've been outcasted by girls all my life, but I've learned to not let their attitudes and behaviors towards me get me down. It's not worth it to feel upset.2