I just think if an answer is generally a more positive outlook, doesn’t that mean you have confidence in yourself? How many unhealthy relationships are sustained by fear of change, uncertainty, etc. I think it would cause more divorces likely... but less missed opportunities to meet the right person.
Sorry if it too abstract of a question. I’ve just always wondered how much of everyone’s fate is caused by their own fears and insecurities and laziness, in avoiding change
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I don't fear failure, nor do I fear uncertainty. Why then, you may ask, am I writing this?
I fear CHANGE. I fear change of perception in the way people look at me.
I make a very conscious effort to make people see & perceive me in a very particular and planned manner.
I try very hard to not deviate from the character I've built for myself in the other person's mind.
My fear comes into play, when there are a number of people in the room, each perceiving me in a different way. Each expecting me to act in a different way to the circumstance at hand.
I fear breaking the frame, I've worked so hard to build for myself. I fear breaking other people's expectations. I fear people changing their opinions about me. I fear people trying to figure out who I really am.
I FEAR CHANGE.0
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