What is a stereotype you hate about your own sex?

Something that isn't true according to you

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  • A lot actually.

    1: All men are the same.

    2: All men will cheat if given the opportunity, not really. I have been seduced many times but I left.

    3: All they want is just sex. Again, wrong! I'm waiting till marriage n will only love my wife. ❤

    4: He is only being a nice guy just to get in her pants.

    5: Men don't cry i. e are emotionless.

    6: All men are perverts. Smh..

    7: We are violent and insensitive.

    8: We have more priviliges then women.

    9: Men have it easier then women. Really?

    10: We want to control women.

    11: We don't really give a fuck about women's feelings.

    12: They are all the same.

    13: All men are A. holes.

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  • That guys only really want sex, that sex is every guy's end goal. I've gotten other guys on GaG calling me a "white knight" after posting stuff about girls and putting guys in the friend-zone. The gist of the myTake was that by putting guys in an imaginary friend-zone you effectively weed out the guys that just want you for sex and it seemed a lot of guys didn't like the sound of that.

    I don't want sex. I'm not asexual but I want the only woman with whom I have sex to be my future wife. The fact that both guys and girls seem to have this preset assumption that all guys have the end goal of having sex kind of makes me angry at times. =/

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  • We're all apparently sluts in our young teens and twenties. Whereas I'm standing over here having had one dick and a full education like: "..."

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  • That we reject nice guys because we're bad people.

    I say this because I think a lot of people are put down nicely then see us with a guy they don't think is good for us and get bad ideas about the woman. And it's sad that they can't just accept the no, but more than that, maybe we went for the dangerous thing because it's all we know aka maybe people pick bad partners because bad is all they've ever seen or known. And it has NOTHING to do with you and how super duper awesome nice you are.

    Ya, this is specifically talking about the guys who claim to be nice but then talk trash about women who have the audacity to pick their own partner (whether he's a good guy we pick or a bad guy)

    But also I wish the daddy issues thing was less of a finger pointing thing that men do. Because let's be real, we're ALL messed up. Dudes probably have mommy/daddy issues just as much as women.

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    • AMEN. I WISH I COULD LOVE THIS COMMENT 300 TIMES. The daddy issue thing, too. My ex used to throw that at me all the time, but he had the worst mommy issues I've ever seen.

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    • @FinalVow Agree, I think people can choose something healthy. Personally, I had something healthy and it felt wrong so I doubted and resisted it. Then I chose someone that reminded me of a bad relative, and I could SEE that but stayed anyway. Now, I'm through with that and am taking a break from dating in order to really come to grips with how my past has affected me (because I always said it didn't, that I was fine, that I was the exception-nope, I'm not) Yea, I agree with you 100%.

    • Wow, that was my exact same situation. Also staying single until I can get my shit straightened out, I don't wanna continue a cycle of trauma or pain for myself or anyone else. Taking a breather seems like the best way to avoid that, until I can assess the total damage and how to overcome it for real this time.

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  • - If you're great with talking to women you're a player or an 'artist.'
    - If you're not having any sex it's because you have no game.
    - If your feet are small women assume your dick is too (I sometimes wear a size 11 shoe but use Magnums in bed).
    - That just because I'm being nice to you as a woman I must be making a move at hitting on you. Sorry, your boobs aren't big enough/I'm not into blue hair/you actually aren't really attractive/etc.

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  • That we're all obsessed with sex and spend our days ogling every girl that walks past us. The only time I really deal with lust is when I'm with my girlfriend or when I've gotten bored and spent far too much time on the internet

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  • easy. that all men care about is sex, looks, etc. 1 I am a man. 2 I don't give a flying fig about sex. 3 looks do not matter except as a bonus. 4 I want my girlfriend to feel comfortable and respected enough to feel safe coming to me with any and all issues she may or may not have.

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  • That men who cry are weak. It's a stereotype I have trouble with due to my childhood, but only in relation to myself, seeing other men cry doesn't affect my opinion of them, if anything it makes me think more of them.

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  • 1) that we don't have feelings other than angry, horny, and hungry
    2) that we don't need support
    3) that if we don't approach you its because we're not interested
    4) that if we do approach you, we're only interested in a quick lay
    5) that we're either players or "nice guys"
    6) that if we check you out repeatedly, we're probably creeps

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  • I hate the stereotypes that guys are distant, violent, emotionless, insensitive, care only about sex, and that men have more privilege than women.

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  • That we somehow have the "upper hand" demonstrated by the made up "patriarchy". Because we always want to control women/ have them do what we want.

    It is just propaganda to create hostility between the sexes in my opinion.

    Try dating as a guy, it's not easy, you are expected to initiate everything.

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  • That we are all alike. I treat my lady like a queen and have since I started dating but the moment I make a mistake or have a bad day or I'm in a bad mood boom all guys are the same. They are all jerks. Or another example is all guys just want sex. News flash not all of us do I mean don't get me wrong we all love sex but truly who doesn't good sex ous great but I would much rather have some one to come home to and lay next to or cuddle with on the couch after a long day.

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  • There are far too many to even mention. They say men will be men , not the case most men are not that perverted yes we make jokes but those are called jokes for a reason. They also say men are violent and very aggressive. Most definitely not the case. Men might be aggressive when angry but so are all genders when angry. The list could go on , but it will be one heck of a list then. Feminists have made tonnes of comments about that are not even remotely relative to men.

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  • Men only want sex. Like, yeah, I love sex. But I'm lonely as hell. I have no one to talk to, no one to cuddle up to, no one who really checks up or cares for me. I don't know, I miss the feeling of being loved. But hey, who needs love when all we want is sex? Maybe that's what makes it so easy to use men haha we give it up so easily, but god forbid we're emotionally available and wanting more out of life than a slew of nights

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  • That we're all BLOODTHIRSTY for that "1 thing" from you. That's ironic, because 3 quarters of the guys I know don't even want to be in the company of females these days. And virtually none of them trust them.

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  • Not necessarily about our sex, just one I dont like is that women want sex as much as women. You could put a man in a room with 10 different women and he would fuck every one of them if given the chance. Women would not. I'll try and provide a link to a standup bit from tom segura (if I can find it) that proves my point.

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  • We worship boobs.

    I mean yeah boobs are nice. They are the cutest most amazing thing. But according to me. It is not a cornerstone for u to be a female, is to have big boobs!! I like a lot of girls with small boobs or no boobs at all. And huge boobs I find disgusting.

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  • All men are players. All men are being nice just to get in her pants.

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  • None. I enjoy being society's underdog and absorb the hate like fuel to my soul.

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  • That men can't control themselves and are unable to do simple chores. Never understood it.

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  • All men want is sex. All men think dirty. All men are immature and need a wife to wear the pants around the household. All men are sexist to some degree... Sorry, I had a few.

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  • 1) That all men want with a girl is sex (not true AT ALL)
    2) That somehow the life of a man is always easier

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  • That we benefit from the so called 'patriarchy.'

    If it does exist... it's doing a horrible job at keeping these whamens down.

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  • All men are not assholes, and we all don't just want sex. Do I like sex? Yes. But would I forego sex for a little while in order to establish a real connection? Of course. I didn't lose my virginity until I was 19, and I've only been with five other women sexually since then. Plus, the sex is better when you actually have an attraction outside the bedroom.

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  • That we're usually only interested in sex rather than a relationship.

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  • That all men want is to hookup. Sometimes yes we do. It's human nature to want to have sex but that doesn't mean we can't have something serious afterwards.

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  • Masculinity sucks. I enjoy dramas and cry or feel emotional and that's something that is not accepted in men

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    • It’s such a stupid stereotype. Males are humans too with thoughts and feelings! You should be able to express what you’re feeling and like “feminine” things.

    • thanks god this is changing

  • That we only want sex, we don’t like relationship or cuddling with u, and that we’re all super Macho don’t have feelings can’t be hurt and can’t get depressed

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  • How do you get people to list their insecurities on the internet? Ask this question. Well done.

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  • All men cheat or will cheat when the opportunity arises.

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  • i hate how girls seduce me by grabbing my dick like I'm a piece of meat.
    I really hate it.
    don't do it.
    don't do.
    It
    Do it

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  • Stereotypes:
    Cheaters
    Drinkers
    Liars
    Perverts
    Insensitive towards women
    Violent
    Sex addicts

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  • Life is so much easier for you, because you are a man and not a woman.

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  • That guys are all sex crazy and its ALL that we think about.

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  • That we're all easy. I know it's not a huge problem nowadays but a lot of people still consider women to be "easy". All I've seen from relationships are guys going after girls that look "easy" and then being assholes to them and acting like the relationship doesn't matter. I don't know I just don't want to feel like I'm an easy little object.

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  • That women are the reason men are insecure.. pretty sure it's on an individual basis and the media. Oh wait? doesn't the patriarchy run the media too? Most Men don't blame men who created the patriarchy. Most men would rather blame women who point out the patriarchy because good women sit still look pretty and don't complain :p (if you are one of those men who realizes that men are the ones who developed these ridiculous standards then thank you).

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    • With respect, what you've described is a stereotype of the opposite sex.

    • also there are more women than men and women actually have a hand in more things than men do. though you have a point about who created the patriarchy. though it should be noted that the media is only trying to make money which is why nearly nothing good is reported on the media.

  • Women aren't handy.
    I can fix just about anything. I have repaired many things in my house. Rebuilt some and reinstalled things. I can work on cars and have done plumbing work, electrical work, and know my way around tools. It's frustrating when guys are around because they automatically assume I have no idea what I'm doing.

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  • that girls are catty, always jealous, bitter & full of drama. i've seen it soooo so so much in girls honestly-- but i have close girlie friends that are not this way at all! 💗

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  • - Girls do make up in order to get attention from guys.
    - Girls are emotionaly unstable (WTF?)
    - Girls must be thin and feminine.
    - Girl can't earn more than her boyfriend.
    - Girl must be a housewife and take care of children.
    - Girls are weak (phisicaly and emotionaly).

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  • I hate the dramatic stereotype. What happens a LOT (not every time but a lot) is that guys will push girls buttons either on purpose or on accident when they have arguments and THAT will put the dramatic side out there. I know I won’t do that for nothing. I have specific buttons

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  • THat we can’t handle our emotions. I’m very similar to most guys in this, I tend to channel anything I’m feeling into rage or simple compartmentalize until i’m alone and can freely express myself. Yet i’m told women are emotional wrecks, crybabies and whatnot.

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  • When guys compare the guys that watch/masturbate to porn the same as girls reading/watching erotica. But just like some guys, not all women like to get off to that kinda stuff, let alone, read it.

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  • We're dramatic and insecure, we're all bisexual, and we enjoy squirting when we have climaxes.

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  • That we are all promiscuous! That's not true! Only a few of us are... lol

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  • That any time we're upset we must be on our period 😑

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  • The whole dumb blonde thing -

    I have a Master's Degree in Engineering and am very blonde and pretty darn smart to boot !!!

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  • I had gender roles stereotypes like women need to do cleaning or caring for kids, having maternal instincts, etc.

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  • That we can’t handle our emotions or lash out at any guy.

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  • When we're mad or upset we're on our period, dislike/cant play sports, loves makeup, absolutely LOVES shopping

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  • I don't hate stereotypes especially about gender. There are more serious issues to worry about than the issues about what is typical of women and men regarding behaviors and acts.

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  • That our snatch smell like fish, it offends me because that's not normal and is something that needs to be checked out if a girl smells that way.

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    • It's normal for there to be a slight odor. Not fishy maybe, but there's some slight pungency to it that comes from the enzymes/yeast in the particular skin there.

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  • That girls just want to marry a wallet with legs 😑 Or that we are all size queens.

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  • That women are only good for men's playthings/screwing, nothing more.

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  • When guys say we are on our period when we are in a bad mood. Like why can't we just be grouchy and NOT on our period?

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    • never said it to a woman never would but I imagine this one could be fixed with self control. not the period part. the grouchy AND snapping at those around you. I might be wrong but could be a potential fix for that. I don't get how people can be that rude though that has got to suck.

  • That we all want attention, that we're attention seekers and dress well/ put on make-up just to catch attention, especially attention from men... THAT'S BS, We don't! We do it coz we like it!

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  • That girls get jealous your friends get jealous even more at you and start liking your boyfriend and lies about it and then turn into a lesbian and still hating on you and talking behind your back when you helped them

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  • that we are overly emotional and are only driven by our emotions

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  • That women cannot work well with other female coworkers. I feel like this mentality can cause premature tension in the workplace before work relationships have had the chance to properly develope.

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  • That are all psychotic, emotional & irrational bitches.

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  • THAT GIRLS GOSSIP A LOT. we do I agree BUT GOOD LORD have you seen how much guys really gossip

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  • That were all raging feminists, were weak and are psychotic bitches

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  • I'm not sure yet I never had sex but maybe if I ever did with my boyfriend I would say silent X, D because even playing I can't not make a noise

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  • We are all money hungry bitches, obsessed with celebs, nails, make up etc.

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  • We cook , clean , and make sandwich for the guys that's what we are here for

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