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Not at all. In fact I think it would be the smart thing for him to do and he would be stupid not to. That way you would know they weren't just after you for your money.
That's the idea, thanks. I just wanted to know if a woman who was actually into me for me, would feel tricked, or negativity. Haha for the pic.
It would bother me a little that he kept it a secret, but I can understand. When you have lots of money it can be hard to know who your real friends are. He probably just wanted to be loved for who he is and not what he has. So on one hand its actually really sweet.
Exactly! Thanks for your opinion.
I have lots of money - and it's hard to tell who is attracted to that, rather than who I am and what I stand for. So I keep it a secret for a while. Just wanted to know how women felt when I finally told them or showed them.
Depends, if he was actively trying to do anything so I won't find out he's rich, I would dump his ass because I don't like being tested that way.But if it just happened so that it was never mentioned, it wouldn't change anything because I would't suddenly want to spend his money.
Why does it matter? Do you love him for him or his money? If I was seeing a girl that I found out was only into me for my money, I'd drop her like a bag of hot rocks!!
Yeah dude - but I want to mitigate the chance of that happening in the first place. It's so fucking exhausting.
Why would you think he's hiding it? Okay, maybe he is because HE doesn't want his wealth to screw up the relationship! When he's ready to let you know, he'll tell you! Don't push it, just be who you are to him the way you are to him. When the time comes for you (as far as he's concerned) to know of his wealth, he'll tell you, I guess. My ex-fiancé was fairly well off but I was with her for 10 years and NEVER knew how much she had! It also didn't matter at all to me! Her family would send her $1000 every few months and she'd send it back to them!
I think you have it backwards. I'm the wealthy one.
Okay. And?(Can you lend me some money to keep from losing my house in 2 weeks?)
It wouldn't bother me but I would not marry him until I can be sure he won't cheat on me or abuse me due to his wealth
Wow. What makes you think he would abuse you just because he's well off?
well i have a lot of rich people in my family and mostly all of them are in abusive marriages
Oh wow, sorry about that.I promise, that's not always the case. There are a ton of genuinely nice guys out there who have money.
It's obvious from the get-go whether or not a guy is rich
I disagree, but respect your opinion.
well as a girl, I see things differently
I know, girl... it's cool.How can you tell, then?
It wouldn't bother me. I wouldn't expect him to tell me that so early into dating.
Thanks. That's what I wanted to hear. lol
I wouldn’t mind, as long as he’s treating/catering to me then what he choose to keep from me doesn’t matter. (Based on this topic only)
I'd understand why he would wanna hide it because gold diggers are crazy but I'd like to think that I wouldn't be affected by it but who knows
Hello. You are a very understanding person. Would I hide my wealth from you m?; not for long. Though first I would test a person’s sincerity, loyalty, and if I like her traits (like yours), then I would reveal my wealth to you, and treat you too.
@Lucky1974 Come on dude. hahaha you're hitting on a 19 year old. WTF?Trust me on this, wealth is so much more attractive when it comes with at least a LITTLE BIT of maturity and self-control.
Actually I was NOT hitting on a 19 year old woman, my previous message was a hypothetical scenario. I have a good standard of morals, thus I NEVER show sexual interest in anyone younger than 30. Your message was offensive as it was nothing more than a ASSUMPTION.
@Lucky1974 OK, thanks
In today's world everything loves money, the actual existance of love is fading and if a girl loves u truly then it doesn't matter how rich or poor u r. So I think it will be bonus for her.
I wouldn't have a problem with it, people change their opinions based on their wealth.
Both! It would a trying time.
What do you mean?
I mean having conflicting feelings about it. On one hand being pleasantly surprised. On the other hand, feeling lied to by omission. So there would be trust issues.
I would assume he’s trying to avoid gold diggers
It’s very common among successful men I’ve met especially in their 40s
They’re like terrified of it lol. I’m just like meh I don’t want your freaking money or I would have married and divorced three 80 year old fat ugly billionaires by now 😂😂😂
I just ended an 18-year marriage. I have no idea how to date, or what the "rules" are these days. But I understand that there are women out there who will target you if they know your wallet is fat.
So I was just trying to get the opinion of women who would be genuine in this scenario. Piss you off? indifferent? NBD?
Definitely be careful but I think you should actually go on YouTube and watch some gold digger channels. Then you will understand what gold diggers look like how they behave and their tactics
But if i were a rich guy I’d pretend to be middle class and date a middle class girl. The problem is that they might not really understand you or behave how you want depending on your lifestyle
The number one thing is lie about your job. But make it related. Like if you are CEO of a bank then say you’re just an analyst or consultant there or something
The guys I know love to talk about their work and women can quickly figure out he’s loaded
Thanks. You're cool. I'll keep all this in mind & let you know if anything major happens! :-)
Hard to explain. Let's just say, rich like what people would call "rich" in the United States in 2019. Haha. No debt, well of, very comfortable.
so, you likely dont use credit
nope - I have 2 credit cards. Both paid off. No mortgage, No car payment.
thats not richrich is, you dont need to use credit
I don't lol. What did you not understand. I pay cash for everything.
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