Why are (alot of) boys so mean to girls?

[maria56]

ugh u boys are jerks and a lot of u objectify us and also pander to us and treat us like were just your prize and only care about women if there close to you but u will go an objectify women but of somebody objectifies ur sister or ur mom its a problem. stop being so fucking hypocrtical!! respect women cuz there people not cuz ur mom or sister is one

boys mess with girls minds and kinda manipulate us. u do this behavior to girls, and then when someone does it to ur sister or wife. u shame girls for sexuality yet u want girls to be sexual to get yourself off.

maybe if view us as people this issues would stop.

not all boys but most boys have some of these tendencies it seems. to varying degrees.

Updates:

[YHL6965]

Here is the thing : most men are not like this. Maybe you met a lot of bad dudes but projecting your issues with these bad dudes upon most men is unreasonable.

Viewing the opposite sex with such negativity won't bring anything good to you or to anyone really. I suggest you come at peace with the issues that make you bitter about men, heal these wounds that hurt you, and get a more positive perspective on men.

Look, I could spend all day complaining about women, but I don't. Why? Because, instead of focusing on the negative, I would rather celebrate their qualities and all the good women out there.

You might say it's unreasonable to see so many people under a good view like that and to that I respond "Maybe, but it's better than having an unreasonable negative perspective". Trust me, you feel much better once you start to focus on the positives.

[SquidwardsmellsGOOD]

This bullshit. Women are far worse to men and the worse part is that women get away with it. Menaretrash literally trends on twitter. Women can post men are trash on twitter and it Would get 500k likes. You women have your little anti male feminist marches. If men did half the shit women didn’t against men. Men would be told they toxic masculine or bla bla bla. You women shame men for literally everything. It’s just now a lot of men are down dealing you women’s shit. Your victim mentality will only work on so many men now. You women say you are feminists and want equality now men are treating you like you men and now what, you don’t like it? I though you wanted equality?

[cloud9vortex1234]

Well, people do care about their families more. You seem to be around a bunch of Nice Guys. I wouldn't take it personally though. Many of them probably don't know how to build attraction with women. Also, you're playing the victim. That's actually effective for women. Guys don't get to do that. As far as the manipulation is concerned, women do it more because its a Defense Mechanism. Of course, there not as physically strong so the way many women get men back is by talking bad and spreading lies about them even more. Your post could have been worded better.

[ConnorH]

No matter how we answer this question, you won't be satisfied. You are asking this with the wrong mindset. Plenty of women do the same if not worse to men, I personally have been attacked with a wine glass for "trying to drug women" at a bar when I was just getting a drink after work.

[edendelion]

Seems more like a rant than a question... but yeah. I do notice that some men do act in that ways. To simply put it, they're selfish. They want to please themselves by using others (women), and often don't care about the other's feelings. But no, not all men are like this. Just open your eyes a bit more and look for the good men that are around you.

[different83]

Because they were not raised right... clearly something happened to make you feel this way so I'll just hope that you know we are not all like that... some of us remember respect.

[Somethingwittty]

Wow the white knights have shown up lol. Start hanging with more respectful people. Its what I had to do.

[pasi02]

You probably just grew up around shitty guys. I haven't met a single guy in real life who actually acts like this

[AynonOMouse]

Maybe they grew up seeing how women mistreated their fathers or other male relatives and they lost all respect for women. lol

[winterfox10]

A lot of us have personal experience with trying to treat a woman with respect and then having her use the ever living out of us. I am sure that the objectification (sometimes) becomes a way to soften that blow.

[1999gaurav]

You are right from your perspective but do you know a lot of boys are even afraid of speaking with girls

[Paulbro]

not all boys are mean to girls. Why are some girls mean to boys?

[Clockface]

You type like you're 12.

[LonewolfMeme]

That last statement was an after thought