When I’m on the dating app girls always say don’t hit me up if you can’t keep a conversation or don’t hit me up if only thing can say is HEY or WHTs U. What do you talk about and same goes with a texting a girl you just met how do keep a conversation going or starting one.
I'd say don't start with hey or hi n then wait for her reply. I skipped every guy who said hi n hey. Read the profile n find at least one common thing you both like then keep the conversation going on with fun or thinge she can relate to it. Introduce a bit about yourself but avoid bragging. Keep the conversation for a while n avoid talking sexually too soon. But who knows you can eventually go straight to the point, those dating app is mostly for sex anyway you don't spend too much time on one girl to find out whether she's your soulmate or not.
Make sure you read her profile and take something from the information provided and start a conversation using it. It can be something you're curious about or something you both share an interest in. You have to use it as bait.
Women are turned off by men on dating apps because all they focus on are their looks and trying to get laid, so unless you're at least an 8/10 your chances of getting a message back unless it's original and intriguing are slim.
First time, talk about your hobbies, likes and dislikes. Second time, Talk about what you like about her and what you've noticed so far. Third time, open up about yourself which will help her open up too. My advice, online isn't great cos you might be being catfish.
Bluemax | 496 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.
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Comment on something specific about her profile. Ask her a question. Ask her opinion about something. Ask open questions instead of ones that lend themselves to yes and no answers.
Actually read their profile. Start simple. Avoid dead-end answers. Respond with things that make the conversation going. Mention things about yourself but avoid bragging. Talk about common interests. Ask questions. Don't be nosy. Be respectful of sensitive topics. Turn your answers into questions bu asking the same thing about them. If they don't wanna talk to you, Don't force it. If they aren't interested, let them be. At least you tried!
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jennifer_bloom | 1.9K opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.
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Talk about your feelings or about something that makes you happy or sad or share your opinion on a topic or about something silly or something that makes you look good. A lot of guys have been interested in me in the past because I would talk about silly things that nobody ever talks about - like how often a guy's wife swears when she is driving in the car - the guy thought I was so funny for mentioning it since nobody ever does.
That’s funny because I just get one to 3 word sentences out of them and I usually have several sentences in response. It’s easy to keep it going if they are interested and responsive, just talk about similar interests , what you’re doing currently and what you’re goals are
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If you have to work to keep the conversation going then you're not a good match in the first place. If you can't think of what to say then one or both of you is likely vapid or knows nothing about the other.
Ask her what she thinks about dumb girls that have double standards and expect the guy to keep conversations going, but thinks there is no expectations for the girl to do the same? That should at least get a response. lol
I honestly don't like when people say that. To me, it's perfectly acceptable to just say Hi or Hey first (though add a smiley emoji or exclamation point at the end so you sound enthusiastic). If anything just ask them how they're doing and stuff. When they answer, just start a regular conversation and start getting to know them. If there's anything in their bio that catches your eye, maybe address that.
Yeah just saying hi or hey is fine. Its actually more like the real face to face interaction. Imagine if you go up to someone and introduce yourself with a whole paragraph 😂😂😂. wouldn't work as well lol
😂😂😂 I would run if someone came up to me and started off telling me about themselves. But like, when people say, "If you just say hi or hey, don't bother," it's like, "How else am I supposed to start a conversation? Do I just tell you my trauma right off the bat?" 😂😂😂
Oh sure. you'll increases your chances by at least 100% 😂😂
Fun fact, youve probably heard of Maslow with his scale of needs and such. So this guy passed an IQ test with the crazy score of 196. He was so trilled about it that when he introduced himself to people, he was saying:
Hello, my name is abraham maslow, i have an IQ of 196 😂😂😂.
I'm going to start going up to people I'm trying to flirt with and begin with, "Hello, I'm ---. Would you prefer to hear of the time I was jumped or the time I was followed?" Sounds like I would win a lot of hearts 😂
You don't. They get an attention orgasm from it and then ignore you, that's why only the worse kind of female filth actually stay on dating apps for long. Find a girl the old fashion way, it's the only way.
Ugh, wrong lol. Many people are too busy to meet people at bars and dont want to meet someone there anyway. But where else would you meet someone, other than at a bar? Online dating really is the only way to meet new people. For me anyway. I guess I'm the worse kimd of filth.
Not that I have any interest in interfering with your self depreciation, but I did refer to female users in specific (because of the distinct status hierarchy in dating sites). There are so many other places to meet women which aren't bars... But you know that, and still you adopt this pose. I'm not gonna stop you, just pity you...
There is no where else to meet someone. At least not for me. I dont go out, so how will I meet someone? I'm a welder by trade, so I dont work with woman, so I won't meet anyone at work. When, or hoe am I supposed to meet someone, if I'm never out? there's nowhere for me to go and nothing to do. So yeah, online dating is the only way for me to meet someone. You dont have to pity that. I work hard and im successful at life. But that makes it hard to meet someone because I habe no clue where else to meet a girl, other than online.
I guess I could go stand in the makeup isle of Walgreens all day on my days off work and wait to talk to a girl and be like, hey that make up is nice, shsts your number? Lol no I dont think so. Wouldn't be my style and probably wouldn't go over well. So yeah...
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