Damn if what you said it seems these girls think too highly of them selves when all they got is a cute look
Personally I wouldn't want a narcissistic self entitled girl friend who thinks she deserves guys need to prove them selves not because she is useful but only because she looks above average. Really sick if girls are actually like that
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I typically get ghosted before a message goes out, which makes me think why bother matching, or I carry the conversation for a minute, then they ghost. It's really frustrating, and I also wonder why bother.
Yo that makes no sense some girls match and then ghost for no reason
I agree @beldath it is extremely frustrating.
Not all but majority of them do
I often wonder how some people feel so confident using "majority" so loosely and definitively, as if they actually have the experience with "the majority" to deduce such claims. Majority is broad and very generalised. I would say a lot of girls indeed do, enough to notice a trend, but majority is too far in my opinion. Regardless of how many of such people each individual encounters, it is still each to their own. If she's interested, she'll invest as much as you do.
I'll be more specific then. majority of girls on dating apps but not the girls outside of them
Not helping the case too much. You still can't say the "majority" unless you've met every single woman on every single dating app, calculated each of their responses to the conversation starter and then worked out the % of them who "don't carry on the conversation" and if it's above 50%, THEN you can say the majority, with proof that you did all the work to come to that conclusion. Point is, saying the "majority" with no objective proof is just assumptions and generalizing. Just because YOU'VE met a lot of women who apparently don't "continue on the convo" (enough to say the majority...), doesn't mean MOST women on dating apps are like that. I'm not denying that there are women who don't, but there also women who do. And you're disregarding the ones who do by saying "majority".
Most goes post this same issue online on and on
That only shows that it is a common phenomenon these days but not that the majority of women follow suit with it. All in all, talking about this is good to spread awareness to people who don't realize that this is what they're doing but saying the majority is like this is discouraging and inaccurate.
How does not talking weed them out?
The question is about guys who do manage to carry out an actual conversation
I feel like I speak on behalf of all guys when I say we feel the same way
Yes, you're right males do feel that way as well.No matter if you're male or female communication is key, no one should be afraid or ashamed to say, "I have nothing to say" or "I want to know I'm keeping you attention" or even "I'm a little nervous".It's human to feel and to want, gender has nothing to do with human emotion.
Yet I get the feeling girls assume he has to start the conversation
Everyone has emotion but guys are not as emotional as girls so logically speaking when it comes to these stuff we can get from frustrated cuz logically speaking why match if you're not interested in talking much or just ghost people
Because the girls should have to put effort into getting a relationship, too. Not just guys
@Rangers of course.I just wanted to make a point becase I don't understand what is not clear to him. The answer is so obvious.
If they guy is expected to do all the work while the girl just has to choose, that's quite unbalanced.
Exactly what ranger said
You both are missing my point. Which is. It's easier for everyone if another party is carrying the conversation. Usually guys are more "desperate" on dating sites so women don't have to put in effort, so a lot if them do what is easier for them, as it js for everyone, to leat another person lead.Of course it's not fair. I am just telling you what it is. I thought it's quite obvious why is that
Seems like they're very self entitled
Sure, many of them are.Many people are asholes in general. What can you do.Dating sites are flawed anyway.
By that logic I can also go by same tactic and nothing will work out since both won't talk
I'm the wrong person to ask. I suck at it. But I think you should generally invite her on a casual date pretty fast. She doesn't have time to chit chat, most likely.
What you should do is find some guy who's really good with women and study what he does.
A lot of guys are socially isolated and simply do not know how to talk with people. I know i don't speak for everyone, but that's how I see it sometimes
Who said I dont want one?
Sorry, then what do you mean?
I mean why would a girl like someone and then in the conversation either give dry replies or not message
Usually either because she's actually not that interested or because she has so much else going on.