Spermicides have side effects:www.mayoclinic.org/.../drg-20070769I would not recommend using them if you don't want such side effects. Better might be a stronger condom but that lessens feelings (and maybe emotions a little).
@roland77 Those were all rare side effects. Most of the time you can tell if you are having a reaction to spermicides. It's usually a feeling of irritation. The toxic shock list was with the cervical diaphragm because you have to leave it for so long to make sure there's not a random sperm lurking.
Hmm, how often do they occur on branded condoms? I used: #Durex, #Ritex, #Secura and #London.
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Why blame the male of pregnancy? She let him in and didn't ask for condom usage.
@roland77 he could have pulled out
@roland77 and she’s blaming both of them
@blackxbarbiex01 Yes, of course. Still some sperms can reside in the pre-cum making you pregnant (I have learned that in sex-education) as only one single sperm cell is required (you surely know this all, just for the others to mention). And also the woman can ask the man to pull out? What if she lets him come inside, then blaming the male is wrong here, she let it happen.
@roland77 the guy should have used a condom anyway, if she wanted him to cum in her and blame him for it then he should have walked away, the woman is dumb and should be a virgin until she learns
@blackxbarbiex01 Still both can do something against it. I don't want to be fully blamed for her pregnancy.
@roland77 you won’t and I hope you don’t
@blackxbarbiex01 Okay, Apple1996 also didn't wrote "fully" but "but more".
I guess "retarded" is a very harsh word here, better uneducated in sex. There are people who don't enjoy sex-education because of some wrong reasons. Everyone, regardless of religious/moral believes should have some basic education in this topic.
@roland77 im jus very insecure that im actually dumb and try to use any excuse as an reason to try and make myself seem smart,ignore me, knowing how to use contraception doesn't make me a genius,and it doesn't make u retarded if u dont know how, u jus lack a little knowledge thats all... dont listen to my dumb insecure ass
Na, don't treat yourself so hard. I agree with that you cannot know all about sex. If you have some spare money left, maybe you like to visit a sex consultant or therapist to get over your insecurities. Also #Youtube provides a lot of good videos from those experts about many aspects in sex (not just the pure intercourse). I would maybe recommend "Sex with Charlie" as a start and also partly Nadia Bokody as they provide good (general) advises.
Well, they both had a choice to use a condom
Then it is less accidental. If they use a condom and the girl still gets pregnant, then no one is to blame.
Birth control can mess up her hormones, if I was her I wouldn’t take it either
I’ve been on birth control for almost 4 years. I’m perfectly fine. There are several forms of birth control... female Condoms, pills, the ring, the shot, the patch, the implant...
Are all of them 100% safe, condoms break, not all plan b’s work, I really don’t know what the others are
That’s why all women should keep track of when they ovulate... there’s no excuse at all. I understand someone have irregular periods but that’s what birth control is for too. To regulate periods, keep women from ovulating, and prevent pregnancy.
does that mean that the hormonal stuff is actually helping? women claim they get depressed also when they take it
Of course it helps. Some women get depressed and some women don’t. Some women gain weight and some women don’t... it all depends on the woman. Just because some women experience negative side effects doesn’t mean that birth control is bad... the only negative side effects I’ve had was mood swings and weight gain and I ended up trying a different birth control pill and I’m perfectly fine. I wouldn’t say that it messes up hormones at all.
Gotta downvote this cuz of how dangerous female birth control is. It litterally caused my mothers breast cancer. It is not as safe as doctors make it seem, has way too many negative side effects
@Apple1996 for some it does and for some it doesn’t... like I said there are female condoms... there’s no excuse.
@pink2000 again condoms can break
Well nothing is 100% so there is always a risk
it’s very rare for female condoms to break. Plus there’s a plan b. Tracking ovulation. Pulling out. Hell birth control and pulling out.
@pink2000 there’s this thing called precum, she can get pregnant even if he pull out
Doing all those things would be extremely stressful to the point that sex wouldn't even be enjoyable. I would not take birth control, wear condoms and pull out. Thay all really seems like a bit much
@Apple1996 that’s the risk you take though. I’m on birth control and I love. I also keep track of my periods just to be extra safe. Plus some forms of birth control can last 3 years or more Also, it’s highly unlikely that someone would get pregnant from pre cum considering the chances are very small. The only way they would get pregnant from pre cum is if sperm is still in the urethra.
I have two kids and I can tell you all the birth control is not worth it. Like if someone wants sex they should have to pay the price of having children. Thats just my opinion tho so no offense
@Apple1996 if they aren’t willing to be cautious and do what’s necessary to prevent children then that’s on them 🤷🏽♀️ As a woman who doesn’t want children, I’m always extra careful.
Ladies-talk? ;-) I guess both can do something against pregnancy, still a condom can break. And sex therapists/gynecologists warn about using female condoms as they are already inside the vagina and may be pushed deeper inside and then it is harder to get them out, or do you have very long fingers to reach the cervix safely? :-) And yes, hormones CAN get messed up by the pill. I will respect her choice not wanting to take one for that reason.
@roland77 good for you
Ha ha, very true. Still the woman could have asked for using condom or the pill (after sex, too). Of course, with all respect of her fears of unwanted side-effects of the pill.
Yeah but no plan is 100% effective. There are few mofo tadpole wannabe who slips past through all of these and decides to do some fast and furious shit. Lol 😂
I think even a good and healthy combination of all said things cannot 100% prevent pregnancy, like making love before and never directly after her menstruation, condoms can break, pills have side effects, pulling out before orgasm can still leave some sperms back in, flushing pussy also leave some in (and affect temporary the PH value).But so far I used branded condoms like Durex, Ritex, Secura, London or sometimes Billy Boy and only a few broke, most didn't. They are more tested than no-name condoms.
So if the woman forgets to take the pill is it the guy's fault?
@AliyahMia Maybe partly, if he is sex-educated but also it may happen to forget it e. g. because of being sleepy (not focused).