Okay so the whole story in short I had a breakup.. And I still follow my ex and even she does... She is on my close friends list.. So yesterday I put a post on my story.. It was general it was not for her or anything.. I liked that post so I put it.. So the next morning she is like I know this is for me and I don't like it.. It is bullshit... Remove me from your close friends list..
Then I'm like it is not for u.. She is remove me.. Then I told her okay fine I will u... Calm down.. She is like she doesn't want to see my stories... She is like I m not asking to stop posting stories just remove me
What does it Mean Girls please tell me.. And the post which I put is down here.
And when ever I ask her what is going on... Or is something wrong going on.. She is like Ntg is going... But I know something is happening she doesn't want to tell me. And when I ask her again she is like ur irritating me... Then all she does is ur irritating me.. Then she is like u stop or else I will block u I don't understand what is wrong.. Please help me..
It is time for you to move on. She was something at one time in your life but now you have to let her go. It will benefit the both of you once you grieve properly. You are actually in a stage of it that can hinder your growth. This part is (Bargaining) by means of story posting. It backfired. and just so you know you are not fooling anyone but yourself with denying it was manipulative. You are holding back from accepting the breakup as FINISHED ! This will not allow acceptance of it for you to move on in a healthy manner. So it's all on you to get there. By her wanting off the friends list or whatever that was her helping you to realize REALITY.
I know it's tough to have that reawakening but you need to wake up now. Cry and cry hard to empty those feelings of false hope.
Everything absolutely everything happens for a reason so realize that as well. God is preparing someone better for you someone who won't leave you heart broken. someone deserving of being on your friends list for life. THAT is what you should be preparing for and not stuck holding on to a lost cause. God Bless you.
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Eh, she could have seen that post and decided she didn’t want to see things from you anymore but instead of removing you herself she wanted you to detach first.
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