This is well thought out. Can you inbox me, I want your advice on something?
This is definitely true, had this with a couple of housemates wasn't until I moved away from them for a few months that I realised just how dependant I am on them
The vast majority of guys do NOT want to be free therapists. But why the hell keep trying to pull this shit on guys is beyond me.
This is so well put, saving it to my notes
Can you DM me too, please? I'd like to ask your opinion on someone as well
"When you first meet them you do put some effort but judge them somewhat. Time is your Ally. They don't remember what they say very well. Let time tell who they are."This is very true. It took my ex 2 years to show her true nature. (or perhaps, to show what she was capable of when at her worst.) Time always reveals the truth eventually, but we have to stay aware and not deceive ourselves when her behavior changes.
I can tell you this isn't right, because I was used, and she had sex with me the moment she got off a plane to see me, so it wasn't like she didn't want sex with me, or wouldn't give it to me, it's just that he was a whore
*that she was a whore, sorry. It was a woman
@RemoErdosain How were you used?
Lies, manipulation, cheating
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This was my hardest opinion to postTook forever to copy and paste the YouTube link since I can't share links
Thanks for going through the trouble. She loves my opinion and love my advice. She even encourage another new friend whom she's now jealous of my and her (new girl) friendship. When it was her idea
I've gotten jealous before over a man's friends. I made it awkward for him and I hated when he left to see them. I knew I was in the wrong and finally came out with what was really bothering meI was new in the state. I had no friends there yet but he knew people. I just wanted him to introduce me to his friends and not leave me behind So I could make friends with his. But he didn't help me out. He didn't bring me around his friends he is now an EX.In my current relationship I got jealous of a waitress at our fav restaurant she was always flirtatious man did I see red. I don't recall ever being so mad at another girl 2 things I discovered one I really liked the man (my mind was screaming MINE) and two I needed to let it go and trust in myself to be able to "keep" the mans interest and trust him not to stray oh and I did open up and admit my jealousy he laughed and swore he didn't notice her flirting... He was in his OWN words (we still laugh about this) "too busy being enraptured by my allure" 🥰 and ya that line worked I fell for it hook and sinker 😏 loving reassurance works.A women's insecurities can be damning the trick is to get pass them and having the mans support and patience (or charm) is key.
I still laugh at how sly his response was... He could have belittled me (if he was a jerk) but instead he complimented me while reassuring me
I been reassuring her too by telling her no woman can ever take her place in my life. I started holding her while talking to women she's jealous of to send a message that I'm talking to them and I'm holding her close to me and including her into our converse. She's starting to tell me what's been bothering her when she gets mad. But I make her smile quickly or laugh
Cute That's the way... A nice gentle positive approach.
What if you see her everyday?
If you see her everyday at school or work then there has been no effort to see you then that doesn't count
So how would you know?
You do realize that if She was single and You actually told Her something like You were fond of Her She might start looking at You as an emotional prospect if there was no other guy in Her life. Hell I've just complemented women sometimes on their articles of clothing and then they started chasing Me. You can't understand them sometimes but one thing is for certain if they are lonely and if You show some interest they might start seeing You as a romantic prospect.
Basically go on a date and feel things out
Yes, but go on more date (s)! One date is too soon to say.
Just be relaxed and chill. Pretty much go with the flow
How many dates should it take?
Just be yourself and get more of the vibes in the general key. There is no exact number, but the more time you spend with her is the better and you might get a good idea depending on how those time spent is going :) If you wanna ask more questions or get advice, you can DM me.
She love the home cooked meals snd watching Netflix and relaxing just spending quality time.
Then you got a woman that wants you for you
She gets mad if I don't speak and she's like an elephant when it comes to memory.
@emerald_17 No, this is a bullshit head game.
He asked how do you know is she's using you. But is she a peace of shit who is playing mind games.
He knows obviously she's possibility playing games, that's why he asked @KrakenAttackin
She's playing games with u if she can't even remember wtf you tell her. Leave unless u want an empty wallet.
She want to go on a date. One time we had a date she canceled the day before. Then wanted to go on a date when she found out a girl She was jealous of wanted to go out on a date with me
No sometimes they actually use men for gifts and meals because let's be honest whom doesn't like free shit. We call those guys orbiters because every beautiful women has a few of those always hanging around hoping to get lucky.
@jkm1864 that's very true also!Opinion owner: she deff just wants your attention
But since then she wants to cuddle/hug and be held by me. She since then opened up to me about her past
Well that's good also... she probably noticed your importance by seeing other girls wanting you too... it happens!
It's silly. More girls you have liking you the more will like you too?
Yea that might be the reason.
Yes that's just biology for you.. lol
Hey r u gonna ask her out?
We eat lunch a lot. I pay sometimes and she pays.
Ask her what she thinks of you... or try to find out if shed date a guy like you.. and go on dates with her and make it more serious later down the road
She said since I got back in her life her last relationship failed. With a smile on her face. Since that day She opened up. Things changed between us
To me... I'm guessing she wants you in her life and not her ex..
I've noticed that women tend to be attracted to men whom already have a partner. I think men actually carry themselves with more confidence when they are actually attached to someone. I know I was in a relationship for 17 years and I always noticed the women staring but when I was single I was effectively invisible.
She could be. She wants us to work on our communication with each other for the future. She likes to hug and cuddle now
Yes You should ask Her out because whats the worst She can do say no? You have to look at it this way You only have so many hours to live on this world so wasting Your time chasing a woman whom doesn't care for You can be better spent making love to the woman whom wants You. Trust Me as You get older that damn clock on the wall starts spinning a lot faster and then You really start regretting all the time You wasted doing fruitless shit. As far as I'm concerned I'd rather spend My time with family and friends so that's never wasted time the wasted time is spent on stupid shit like video games and working massive amounts of overtime because what Your family really needs is YOU not the bullshit.
@jkm1864 that's true. I don't play video games I'm more outdoor type of guy. I work a lot too.
Hahaha She allows physical contact and She opened up and You still can't see She want's You? Trust Me if She is allowing physical intimacy and She's opening up She wants You for sure.
Look the natural instinct of a man is to work His ass off to provide for His family. I'm speaking from experience there comes a time where Your family actually needs You more than the money. So the best thing You can do is try to live a simple life so You can maximize the time spent with the ones You love.
@jkm1864. You sir, are speaking truth!
I dont get why women do this instead of just being straight forward
@red324 LOL nobody said it was going to be easy.
What are you saying? She's just playing hard to get?
@red324 no I'm not saying that you didn't give enough information for me to make any assumptions. I'm just answering to what you previously said about women.
And that is why i don't trust women. Cruel af
Yes I 100% agree. It’s terrible that people are like that. I’ve slowly been cutting off my girl friends who are like that. I can’t even tell the guys they have a thing with because I don't know how to even contact them but if I could I would!
You're not like that though are you?
Definitely not. That’s why I’m cutting off my friends who are like that. I won’t stand for being friends with people who are like that. Not worth my time.
Too few guys will listen to your wise advice...
@FatherJack You know as You get older You realize time is slipping by so I learned to just move on because that time could be better spent with a woman whom really appreciates You. I know in My youth I was blinded by love and I had to have that one girl and if I didn't I felt I was going to die. I just wished I knew then what I know now because I would have saved Myself from so much useless heart ache and found love with someone whom appreciated Me for who I am.
I don't know but I know she want to go on dates with me. She voiced that a few weeks ago. I thought she was joking because we were teasing each other
What most guys fail to realize is that women can also be afraid of being rejected, and all the ambiguous things they do usually have more to do with that than with being unsure if being with you.
I never thought about that for that point of view.
Observe, and you will see ;)
So just ask her out?
Do not push, make it easier for her to come to you. Just by keeping interaction going on.
What to look for?
if you dont know, i can teach it. its something you learn to recognise as part of growing up and learning how to play the dating game... sorry about that
Now a days you can end up in jail doing this
Haha dude I kiss girls all the time. some will just reject you or pull their head away.All you do then is apologize and abort the missionGuys are too afraid to make moves nowadays
Officer, this comment right here
She suggested a few date nights including slow dancing
This isn’t true. Just because she doesn’t suggest you meet up doesn’t mean she doesn’t like you as a friend.
@Wondagurl A friend? Come on now. His question is more about a sexual non friend-zone relationship.
What’s your point? She probably looks at him as a friend.
@Wondagurl Stop. Now you're being weird."How do you know if a woman is using you for the attention you give her or if she actually likes you?" - OP
Are you telling me friends can’t each other for attention?
@Wondagurl that's part of the main question
That’s the point I’m trying to make. This is exactly what she could be doing.
Good because we would like you to fuck off with your toys and never look back.
Angry woman. Go away. Far away.
@iceseeyou25 Thank you karen.
@iceseeyou25 If that happens, you Feminists will only accelerate your showing of your already impressive IQ - worthy of the Guiness Book of World Records LOL
I'm guessing this triggered you because you only use men for attention and can't stand being called out on it. Your ego must be about to burst lol
@SomeGuyCalledTom She is just another dumb, entitled, cunt.
Attention is a premium for woman. How else will we know if we are worth anything
@Wondagurl But it would seem like to me if you went all that trouble to get dressed up she would obviously like the guy more than just using him for attention
Some girls use guys they have no interest in at all for attention to feel better about themselves
Was that you that down voted me?
No I don’t even know how to do that.
She was several times and said she did it cause she love me
There you have it then
What do you mean?