That definitely qualifies you for having a hard life. Did that happen a long time ago? I'm wondering how old you were when you lost your mother.
I was three years old when it happened but I did not find out about it until two years ago when my ex fiance who was a medium she found out everything and I've met one of my uncles finally on my dad's side and he told me it was the truth so yeah I've had it rough but I finally know who I am and now it's time for me to be who I am and instead of who I am supposed to be
Wow, so your ex truly had psychic skills. That's very interesting. I have visited psychics a few times and am always trying to figure out whether what they're saying is true or not. That must have been such a horrible thing to find out about. Did your dad go to jail for that? And did you ever get to know him?
No my dad didn't go to jail my dad died in 1994 when I was 19 and I just found this all out 2 years ago
Who were you raised by?
I was raised by my dad after my mom died when I was three years old up until the day he died and I knew nothing about anything like I said till about 2 years ago
I bet that changed your opinion of him a lot!Hopefully you at least remember your mom a little bit.
I remember very little of her but my family tells me a lot of great things about her
It's good that you got to learn about her.
Yes it is but also if I would have found out my dad did that while he was alive I would not be here talking to you now
So in the end, are you glad you found out that he did it? Or would you rather it have stayed a secret?
Well, that answers that question!
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Why do you feel like you're behind socially?
I am not able to have peers my own age because I don't match the expendable income that they have. It's loaded to say that but it all boils down to be true. Given there are friends that don't expect that but it's common courtesy and politeness. Think of it this way. Everyone is going to see a movie with dinner after. I can afford the movie but I have to hold back on dinner and order a water. People are going to throw me money for food. Now I could simply meet them after the movie and save money there but all around hanging out with people cost money. In addition, I'm out of school and finding friends will more than likely be at work...
I also had a sheltered childhood and I moved from school to school frequently so not enough time to find people and build meaningful relationships
How did your interview go by the way?
I actually just finished it a few minutes ago. It was a virtual interview over webcam. I feel okay about it. Thanks for asking!
I am glad you at least feel that it went well and you are welcome :)
Sorry to hear that. I hope things get better for you.
There are people who selected in the poll that they've had an easy life.
Then their hard life will come one day as everyone's have to experience hard life , that's my point of view
So you made your life harder than it needed to be?
Don't we all, in one way or another?
Sometimes you gotta just evaluate yourself, bite the bullet and admit you done goofed.
I'm not sure why that is, but I noticed that in the poll also. Maybe people tend to be nicer to girls?
Yes, parents do usually have a lot to do with the way a person's life is set up.
Very true... but I've worked hard to try to make the best of it :-)
What was hard about life at school?
@Flower7 I was severely bullied and physically harmed
I can see how that would have been really hard to deal with. What were the reasons why people bullied you?
@Flower7 They bullied me on my weight most of all
Oh yeah, you mentioned before that you had an eating disorder. I'm starting to understand why.
@Flower7 Yeah people were crazy in school, they tried stabbing me with a compass, one of the things that come with a Pencil and sharpy thing together, one time I was out sick with Strep throat and this one glued the hole to where the key went into my lock, so I had scrap glue off to my lock in order to open it to get into my School locker... One time I use to go without a lock on my school locker and the bullies stole my books.
Sorry to hear that. I bet you're really glad to be finished with school!
@Flower7 Yeah, I just wish things with School was more smoother
Of course! Maybe that could have made things turn out differently for you.
GoodGuyBreakingBad - sorry that you were bullied and physically harmed but I am glad that you are here and survived it ! thanks
@MissDawn7961 Thank You So Much Well Appreciate Your Kindness 🙏
menina - sorry and I just prayed for you ! thanks
@MissDawn7961 Thank you @MissDawn7961 :) ❤
Strange sounds interesting.
Probably not if I tell you lol
True, it's always possible for things to be worse...
Some people truly do have bad lives.
I know the feeling.