What are your biggest insecurities?

[Rocco7070]

My hairs too fly away, pants have a too tight feel, blond eyelashes, history of feeling weak in my knees when ceertain girls walk up and look me over like a pork chop and that when I ever do say... I love you... itll be thought just a ploy. See, Im lucky in many ways, build, a little goodlooking, athletic, not always a moron,. But being flesh and blood, I get nervous and sweaty and stutter just a bit, and turn into a shy little boy looking back and forth, when those same certain girls walk near me. My biggest insecurity might be what would happen to me if those and a few more girls could make me roll around in their hands like a big ball of putty. Maybe id go blind being such a boy whore, makeing my girl Queen, and me her toy, and say stuff, weak stuff, like no, please dont tear me apart and throw all the pieces away! Or some real, real weak shit like I did when I was 15... Id just about pass out if you ever touched me there! Shit like that, because nobody knows better than me just what a big fuckin baby a girl can make, that some heavy duty insecurities. So, once I really came unglued in fourth grade when that girl came and gave me a valentine, and smiled. I can still remember beingso afraid i pissed in my pants, she came right back and said... oh thats ok, nobody knows but me... and smiled again. Im like a great big apple hanging way down low on the tree, right beside the door to the girls school! Ripe.

[MCheetah]

MAJOR:
- My height and how short I am (180 cm; shorter than all of my male friends and 1/3rd of the female ones).
- My weight and how Hypothyroidism makes it near impossible to lose weight on my own without medication (which I can't afford).

MINOR:
- My skin tone/ethnicity (I'd rather be mixed or "none of the major races" so people won't stereotype me as they usually do).
- My small penis size and how it's less than seven inches. That's why I usually have to do oral when with a woman, despite not really liking it.
- My face, and how ugly I look. I've been compared to famous ugly men, like Ice Cube or a (younger) Levar Burton, and I really dislike that.

I basically look like this.

I basically look like this.

[lemonlatte]

my weight, my height, my hair, my nose, my acne, my thighs, my stomach, my boobs, my nails, my feet, my eyebrows, my hair, the fact that I don't shave my legs, my writing, my artistic talent, my singing voice, my athleticism (or lack thereof), my math ability, tbh just my ability to do anything in general, the way I talk, my anxiety, my social anxiety, I don't know how to stand up for myself, I'm afraid I won't ever matter to anyone, lack of strength, stamina, the color of my teeth, I can't smile with teeth, I have a weird laugh, I'm not photogenic, I pick at my skin, my bad memory, my overthinking, my jeans size, my music taste, my very boring closet, my relationship status, my awkwardness, my obliviousness, my saltiness, and my self sabotaging. Definitely missed a lot but that's what I got off the top of my head.

[xLyndseeyx]

Every time I lift up my shirt, part of my ribs just show. Just being skinny.. Whatever I eat, it doesn't go anywhere. Others would DIE to have that.. Another insecurity of mine. I have a lot/hate for blue eyes on myself. It's not the color. It's the fact that I avoid cameras that have a flash. Just cause my eyes will go red.. You know what I mean.
Another one that people point out that I get self conscious over. My dimples on my face.

[ThisDudeHere]

I guess facial and body proportions in general.

[Citizenkirk]

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[BeenThereLovedIt]

My body. I'm not insecure about it today - I'm 50 and yet no gray hair at all, and my body is still young-ish. no sagging or wrinkles or anything. BUT I'm starting to worry that it's going to and I'm stressing over it because I still date and stuff, and I'm considered a solid 9 for my age, while in my 20's I was probably a 6 lol. I'm enjoying the ride and don't want it to end!

[Ripper_E]

Not many off the top of my head. I was insecure about my penis size in high school. Typical male insecurity lol but not anymore.
I'm my own worst critic so I'm insecure about anything I do because it's never good enough in my eyes. Even when others say it's great, I doubt myself.

[Cynicaldreamer]

In no particular order:

• Looks- I don't care what anyone says, people DO judge you on your appearance, even friendships, which is ridiculous
• My weight
• How I talk (some people say I talk too fast so they have a hard time understanding me)
• My walk/gait. People say I walk too fast or "like I'm on a mission" whatever that means. I can't help I walk fast, lol. But apparently that bugs some people

[Chris_u006]

I have none. I can say or do what I want, I can look how I want, I just don't CARE! My choises, my headitch. Not anyone elses.
But I can say this much, if you ever talk shit about me I get slightly more disappointed in the entire humanity. And by not caring about shit or snap back if I get offended, my morality is higher than yours. Because I ended it.

[angeliquedevereux2]

My top 6 insecurities
1. My height
2. My eyebrows (I don't know they just look bushy to me :/)
3. My big ads hands
4. Man shoulders gang
5. How I'm very annoying and worry I'm pissing off everyone
5. Face and body woo
6. Hip dips

[jennifer_bloom]

Mine are unique - my ability to tolerate cold and hot weather - my fitness as a future wife and mother - my fitness in academia - my lifespan considering the genes I inherited - and my lack of intelligence - I’m not stupid since I got straight As in school but I wish I was smarter

[ThongQueenFlirt]

Mine is my agoraphobia with panic attacks. It made my world so small and limited. I had become a prisoner in my own home. Then food became my comfort. I hated that. I'm now doing something about my weight. I've already lost 87 lbs. And still on my journey to lose more, and I'm doing it too. If I can get my weight and phobia under control then I'll be good to go! <3

[wishingcouple14]

Let's see, 1 I'm ugly. My teeth are all fucked up, and never got them fixed as a kid because my sisters got all the attention. I have scars on my arms because due to my high as fuck anxiety (medication has made it worse and therapy is a joke and more importantly a scam) so I have picked. 2 which I am smart I can't hold a good conversation with other people for more then 2 minutes, so I'm a boring person. And 3 I have a small dick. I find no shame in that fact but at the same time having women laugh at it really kills.

[ineedatan]

I've got a bunch. I'm working on overcoming them and taking steps to better myself in not being weighed down by them. A huge one is my self image and how I hate being an indecisive person.

[WintergirlVanishing]

My biggest insecurity is my weight, but I'm working on that and am down 30lbs. My next biggest insecurity is my hair. I'm growing out my buzzcut for the first time since 10th grade, and my hair still at an awkward length because it's only been about a year. I compensate by keeping it in a small ponytail or covering my hair when in public.

[SphynxUK]

Deep down, just one. I never feel good enough.


I don’t have any others about looks etc as I’ve learned to accept myself as I am. I don’t care what other people think about me, good or bad.

[Anonymous]

My weight.
I think I've been dieting for at least 14 years and I've tried at least 20 different diets.
It is very hard for me to lose any weight.
I really have to watch what I eat 24/7.
My metabolism is very slow and if I eat like my friends I would gain a lot of weight.

[Thatsamazing]

It's not an insecurity really, but I wish that I had/have gotten to fuck more pretty girls than I currently have. It does get me down emotionally sometimes.

[Anonymous]

Too short, boobs and butt too big, can’t have kids because of medical reasons and I used to be too promiscuous. I’ve been told I’m only good for fun and no decent guy will ever want me. So far it’s true.

[thimmslicc]

My body shape. My fat. My back fat. My huge pores. My flat nose. My orange blonde hair.
My voice. My lashes.

[wankiam]

haven't got a single one... not saying i dont have faults or inperfections but i realized at a young age i am what i am so there's no point losing sleep over things i can't change or dont want to change just to conform

[Jjpayne]

Lacking confidence and not having the accomplishments that most people my age have.

[prakhindev92]

Not talking to a person right next to you! , Or to the person you have known him all your life being now stranger , i don't drinking parties , everybody have problems with everybody , even if we are friends sometimes something comes up i hate that!

[Saarr]

Well, some things of my personality, my nose and my weight 🙃

[winterfox10]

I'm really insecure about the way I smell, for some reason. Somewhat insecure about my weight... mostly my smell.

[Don-_-Don]

Not looking perfect enough maybe, that's an insecurity that have for my own self.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

At my age I stopped being insecure about my looks, I'm what I am and I'm okay with it.. My insecurities are more about life and the future

[Kiffin11]

Aspects of personality, my face, my forehead, my stomach, my abnormal hair growth, my knees, my hands, my backside, my acne and acne scars, my upper arms and broader shoulders and frame.

[Anonymous]

My skin cuz I have a crap ton of body acne scars. If I didn’t have them I’d be confident as hell😤

[AlwaysBelieving]

Right now, my midsection could be flatter, but overall I'm glad I'm alive.

[Vero4567]

My small boobs, thigh fat, stretch mark and cellulite.

I am working on it, but it's a bumpy ride of self love.

[fall_angel-86]

My biggest insecurity would be my size. I am a bigger girl and although I am generally happy o feel ashamed about being big

[Flower7]

I feel like my stomach isn't flat enough. My hair brings me a lot of insecurity also because it never likes to cooperate with me.

[martinilove820]

My body shape, shoulders specificly. My nose, smile, hands, my legs, feet.

[GreenGold1992]

That due to my autism, I may never find a lasting adult relationship.

[Tstrbrainer]

For guys, it might be dick size, if he's below 8 inches

[Anonymous]

I want an innie instead of an outtie cause I’m self conscious of what will my partner think about it 🙈

[SuccessfulHornDog]

I had to really think about this, not because I'm perfect but because I dont't really think about anything like that. If I had to choose I would same that my cock is a grower not a shower and it looks better when ready for action.

[Akachan]

My height, just about everyone in my family is 6ft+ and I'm 5'10 so it's really embarrassing.

[tjbyrd39]

But I'm going to spell her name wrong when I put it on it and send it.

[Quidthonian]

One word: Finances.
I am highly introverted and I have virtually zero experience in romantic relationships. I am hoping to find a partner who will understand and respect that.

[Anonymous]

I'm Brown, fat , short and because of that people look down upon me.

I feel like killing my myself, but I couldn't.

[CMThomas27]

The fact I have to wear diapers again at the age of 34 due to severe crohn's disease

[Rizwan_khan]

Mine is that my future better half will love me Or not. And is I'm capable to make her happy always and is she satisfied in bed with me Or not

[ad809]

I’m really insecure about my nose. It looks fine from the front but my side profile is horrible.

[scooogy]

I don't know how to handle issues in a relationship. Whenever I caused them, I've been left like in a heartbeat. Whenever they caused them, they sadly managed to beg me to take them back.

[SirRexington]

That I'll never find a good girl to settle down with me and I'll die bitter, angry and alone.

[TacosRAwesome]

My personality. Doesn't matter how good I try to look, my personality just puts people off.

[douride2]

I have scars on my legs from a long ago accident that I am very self conscious of.

[jahaims]

That I come across ignorant and arrogant because of the way I articulate my thoughts.

[venomhbk1313]

Not finding the one I'll spend the rest of my life with

[jshm2]

That people may feel insecure around me.

[di6n9]

I'd say my nose and hairline.

[anon1903]

Body language. Mine is very... Ineffective.

[SetFree]

Fear is a liar. I choose to reject it. I hope you can too.

[mobbie32]

Not being able to fully satisfy a girl because my penis is 6 inches, sometimes less depending on arousal etc

[Chriswashere]

Probably my height being only 5’6 and all lol and my face

[Little_Princesa]

Eye color. Basic brown. Yikes

[Curabyron]

My fat body, ugly chin and my ugly personality

[Loucetios]

insecurity, my appearance

[BackAgain602]

My skin tone and smile

[callmecal24]

Looks and maybe not being enough.

[Anonymous]

My gut even though it is small compared to everyone else.