Good observation!There's just saying you want to be happy.And then there's doing something to get it.
Count me out. Misery won't have my company.
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Not gonna believe that.
The fun thing about the truth is that you don’t have to believe it for it to be true.
And I say it's not the truth.
You versus the bureau of economic research.I wouldn’t put my money on you being right.
I don't care. I see the opposite.It's like the TV telling you one thing but the other thing is happening.
There's just saying, that they want to be happy.And then there's doing something to be happier.
Like belle from beauty and the beast that does not need a man but her books 😊
I counter that with a logical statement.You can put these 2 words in the same sentence to state either way - depending whether you add the word "not" or substitute "happy" with "unhappy". Mind the double negative resulting in a positive statement.
Lol, you're definitely being sarcastic 😂😂😂
I understand women and I love women.
Oh we all love themThey don't love each other
I see women loving each other
Fine by me. Let her ask me out and I'll go with her then 👌
Riiiight, like im going to personally message you and say here are the girls i know, is something wrong with you? I don't help any guys find girls... Guys can do it themselves.
You don't have to do anything. I'll take it from there.
then why bother asking, i would never help a guy get a girl
why bother responding?
I can say the same thing with being rich.
Any sort of goals.
Women don’t want to be happy therefore drag us men down with them
The Wrong women were chosen then.
What about the miserable divorced single parents? One of them pays child support, the other neglects the kid for partying or something (or in reverse sacrifices partying for the kid).
We all do things that we think makes us happy or happier. I've seen first hand what a devorce can do to people. If they party they usually do it because they think it'll make them happy. Yes they spend less time on their children now, but they just went through something terrible. They thought their live was gonna be with someone for the rest of their lives. It's a big shock if that falls apart. their whole lives are out of nowhere upside down and have to change a lot.Neglecting a child is never fun for anyone, but some thing that that makes them happier. we're all humans and we do what we think works best, whatever we think that might be. We all have different perspectives on life on different moments in our lives
To me it looks 100% like they don't want to be happy and keep making poor choices.
Mostly they seem to make desperate choices. They are so fucked up at that moment that they look for things that can make them happy. Whether it makes them happy or not is another question and usually can be answered with "not really, but it felt good in the moment" afterwards. I think that it's a good idea to place yourself in the mind of someone like that. Try to imagine as hard as you can to feel the same things they feel and imagine what you would do.
I don't have to because I've been there and done that myself. I choose to follow the money. For me money = happiness.
Why is it hard to understand their decisions. If you don't need to place yourself in their mindset to understand them because you already understand, I don't see the reason you had to ask the question
Those, who screw up and end up in misery, divorce, pay child support etc...