If a girl I don't even know comes up to me and claims to "love" me , what should be the reply I should give her?

[WindAtMyBack]

"I want to turn her down because I like someone else"

How is that working out? Have you asked her out? Have you made your interests known in any way? How long have you liked this girl and not done anything about it?

I think you should seriously consider this girl who said she loves you. She's there. She says she loves you. You can have a girlfriend right now if you want it.

I'm thinking that you are turning down a girl who is there, for a girl that probably will never happen. Think real hard about this and keep your mind and heart open.

It's a big mistake, and a very very common mistake, for young guys to focus on one girl they "like" but ignore all the other hundreds of girls out there. There is a huge difference between fantasy and reality. Which one of these girls is fantasy and which is reality?

[wassim97]

Don’t ignore her just tell her the truth that you like another person and you can’t love her so don’t waste your time

[btbc92]

She can't love it because she doesn't KNOW YOU. It's just hormones and urges. You do not have to tell her you to think about it, because there is nothing to think about. You don't love her romantically. Just tell her the truth. Whatever she feels is on her to deal with, not you. Your focus should be whether or not you want to know if this person you are interested in is somebody you should invest in. But that should be your choice.

[kakashii]

if you dont love her, ask why. thats what i would do. if you do love her, tell her i do too or something. love is a strong word, so make sure you actually mean it