What shall I do if many people are REALLY jealous of my achievements, even though I'm humble and help them in need?

Question

They will be nice to me whenever they need me and once they're done, they'll ignore me.

But I got to know that 10-20 of them have jealousy against me, they gossip, backstab, exclude me and try to sabotage my reputation.
I feel so lonely and those who are my friends they're only with me to get help and benefits.
Just because I'm smarter than them, achieve more as I'm disciplined , focused , hardworking, WITHOUT SHOWING OFF and i also help or guide compassionately the ones in need, they still they hate me.

It's not my fault if their crush find me attractive. I'm a simple person. I never even tried to talk to their crush.

Answer 1

btbc92 | 1.9K opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Master

These are fake people. Do not even waste your time with them. You should not have to contend with them. Just remove them out of your life, and when they are out, KEEP THEM OUT! You cannot be nice to everybody! No matter what their so-called crush likes just because your attractive, don't bother with him either. Just focus on what you have to do and live your life! One thing I had to learn was to just ignore people. I know its hard, but trust me when I say, I have been there, done that, and refuse to continue to live in it. They will always find ways to sabotage you and bring you down. They don't care about you or what you do, they just want you gone. But who are they to decide that? God decides that. So if they have no desire to really know you and bother to learn from you, then they are nothing but a hindrance. And you do not deserve the poor treatment you are being presented with.

Sound a lot like me on all of the above, but either way, the problem is actually caring about what they think. You already gave what you could and you didn't have to. Don't give them anymore. Please, for your sake, don't. Like others have said, just ignore them. They're tortured people so they want to torture you. If you allow them to torture you then they end up winning. DO NOT LET THEM WIN.

Sarahloves19

1 mo
Thank you so much dear. I posted this question before but one mean girl judged me and said even i don't like you after reading your question and that you're not humble. so i told her you're also one of them.
Sarahloves19

1 mo
Yes I've stopped helping them and i ignore them now. But the terrifying part is that they form the group and try to do secretive things to sabotage you. This happened with one talented actor who was killed by these jealous people who planned it since 2 years.
btbc92

1 mo
OMG, REALLY? Do people even know the word humbleness anymore? You being more self-aware of who you are as a person and not doing it out of vanity is not being somebody who isn't humble. You just expressing yourself and your explaining why you feel the way you feel, and people started don't seem to get it. Now if you chose to say nothing and do nothing, then they'll say that you're nothing but a pushover and that is all your fault because you allow them to push over you. When that's not even the case either. I honestly don't know what in the world is up with people. But I know for a fact is that I go through the same thing, and at the end of the day sometimes you can do nothing and they will still treat you like crap. Jones people are just jealous people. They don't care who they use and abuse, as long as they get something out of you. Just stopped continuing doing the same thing that you've been doing for these people. And only give that to those that are deserving of it. Not because you're mean. Not because you're nasty. Not because you're selfish and you don't care. But because you can't afford to constantly burn yourself out, and these people want to drain your energy. What you going to do with something demonic, and you got to rebuke it.
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Sarahloves19

1 mo
Yes right. You're so caring. But i also told her that judge me if it satisfies your ego and insecurity. Then she was silent. Then i removed her opinion. I think she was a disturbed person like them. But in that innocent actor case, he trusted everyone blindly so people planned and set up a girlfriend For him who looted his money, killed them and now they calling it suicide. That actor even bought his piece of land on moon. He was the most humble , emotional and talented actor. But his innocence made jealous people win against him. His name is Sushant Singh Rajput. BIG BOLLYWOOD STARS, POLITICIANS and others are involved in this pre planned murder. We people raised our voice for him and now hoping for justice to be served.
btbc92

1 mo
They don't know how to judge rightly in the first place. This is one of the top main reasons why Jesus had said about not judging. Becasue a lot of people don't know what they judge and they refuse to judge themselves just as harshly for their error. not worth the effort. What happened with that actor was sad, because he didn't rightly judge who his oppressors were. It's a learning lesson for all.

Answer 2

Sarahloves19

Thank you so much dear. I posted this question before but one mean girl judged me and said even i don't like you after reading your question and that you're not humble. so i told her you're also one of them.

Answer 3

Sarahloves19

Yes I've stopped helping them and i ignore them now. But the terrifying part is that they form the group and try to do secretive things to sabotage you. This happened with one talented actor who was killed by these jealous people who planned it since 2 years.

Answer 4

btbc92

OMG, REALLY? Do people even know the word humbleness anymore? You being more self-aware of who you are as a person and not doing it out of vanity is not being somebody who isn't humble. You just expressing yourself and your explaining why you feel the way you feel, and people started don't seem to get it. Now if you chose to say nothing and do nothing, then they'll say that you're nothing but a pushover and that is all your fault because you allow them to push over you. When that's not even the case either. I honestly don't know what in the world is up with people. But I know for a fact is that I go through the same thing, and at the end of the day sometimes you can do nothing and they will still treat you like crap. Jones people are just jealous people. They don't care who they use and abuse, as long as they get something out of you. Just stopped continuing doing the same thing that you've been doing for these people. And only give that to those that are deserving of it. Not because you're mean. Not because you're nasty. Not because you're selfish and you don't care. But because you can't afford to constantly burn yourself out, and these people want to drain your energy. What you going to do with something demonic, and you got to rebuke it.

Answer 5

Sarahloves19

Yes right. You're so caring. But i also told her that judge me if it satisfies your ego and insecurity. Then she was silent. Then i removed her opinion. I think she was a disturbed person like them. But in that innocent actor case, he trusted everyone blindly so people planned and set up a girlfriend For him who looted his money, killed them and now they calling it suicide. That actor even bought his piece of land on moon. He was the most humble , emotional and talented actor. But his innocence made jealous people win against him. His name is Sushant Singh Rajput. BIG BOLLYWOOD STARS, POLITICIANS and others are involved in this pre planned murder. We people raised our voice for him and now hoping for justice to be served.

Answer 6

btbc92

They don't know how to judge rightly in the first place. This is one of the top main reasons why Jesus had said about not judging. Becasue a lot of people don't know what they judge and they refuse to judge themselves just as harshly for their error. not worth the effort. What happened with that actor was sad, because he didn't rightly judge who his oppressors were. It's a learning lesson for all.

Answer 7

Elsa143

Xper 6

Ghost them and ignore them when they come begging for your help.
I know how it feels.
Even if you're slightly good looking than them, a little more skilled or slightly successful they will come behind you with their horns and green eyes.
Only weak people do that to put you down. They're a tortured soul.

Answer 8

FreyaRed

Xper 6

People are people and I assure you, those who are jealous would belittle you if your achievements or social status were smaller than theirs. However you shouldn't think stereo-typically about all of them, because it's always a small group of people that influences your personal perception with their negativity more than others.

Sarahloves19

1 mo
They're even ready to make me fail. You know It happened with the bollywood actor Sushant Singh Rajput. He was both talented in acting and astronomy. He even had bought his home in moon. He was so humble and sweet but all his jealous friends set up fraud girlfriend for him who looted his money and slowly murdered him and took away his money.
Sarahloves19

1 mo
These jeal people are very dangerous even if you are a good person.

Answer 9

Sarahloves19

They're even ready to make me fail. You know It happened with the bollywood actor Sushant Singh Rajput. He was both talented in acting and astronomy. He even had bought his home in moon. He was so humble and sweet but all his jealous friends set up fraud girlfriend for him who looted his money and slowly murdered him and took away his money.

Answer 10

Sarahloves19

These jeal people are very dangerous even if you are a good person.

Answer 11

Marilynjuana | 191 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Yoda

It is what it is. Ignore, mind your own life and move on.

Sarahloves19

1 mo
Sadly they are working with me. What if they set a trap for me? Like a date which seems to be genuine or try to steal from me?
Marilynjuana

1 mo
If they have nothing to go off of then there is not much they can do. If they are truly being unfair, contact your boss and discuss the matter.

Answer 12

Sarahloves19

Sadly they are working with me. What if they set a trap for me? Like a date which seems to be genuine or try to steal from me?

Answer 13

Marilynjuana

If they have nothing to go off of then there is not much they can do. If they are truly being unfair, contact your boss and discuss the matter.

Answer 14

Flower7 | 297 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Guru

Try not letting them know what your accomplishments are. Keep most of those things to yourself so you don't have to deal with other people's opinions.

Answer 15

callmecal24

Xper 4

People are always like that, just ignore and be the bigger person.

Sarahloves19

1 mo
Yes but what if they plot against me and try to set me up in unexpected trap?

Answer 16

Sarahloves19

Yes but what if they plot against me and try to set me up in unexpected trap?

Answer 17

Ragnarook

Xper 4

you are a sweetheart... just never change... people are jealous by nature and sometimes bring such negative energies

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