Great answer. I will look into this
Your welcome. Hopefully it helps
We aren’t dating so I’m asking in general. Does this still apply?
Yes, I think. If someone's your friend, he or she shouldn't be embarrassed of that. That's my whole point.
Okay you’re right. She doesn’t like me but wants to be friends but she does none of this
Great to know and I’m glad to know I’m not of any real importance to her. I’m just some guy she comes when she is bored
How do you conclude all this? Is her behavior this suggestive?
It’s not so obvious but I have been dealing with her for years and you notice patterns
Years, gotcha. You know better dude. Handle it.
Definitely we aren’t dating so there is really no attachment. I do want to date her though
Either ditch her or continue being with her under the burden of being considered just a friend or something even less.
I’m certainly something less than a friend. Not quite an acquaintance but something similar
Dude, ditch her. Plenty of fish in the sea. Go get 'em.
I’ll try but she is the one I want to be with
It feels the same with everyone you're interested in. Just go out and find someone who gives you what you want. Don't waste your time here.
Sure. If she text me should I ignore it?
You can either end things with her directly, keep ignoring her till she confronts or confess it to her that you like her more than a friend and if she rejects you (which she most probably will), then do away with her. Never settle to be under friend zone.
The mistake was I settled and this was a disaster. I felt she knew I liked her because I said it but used to get free attention when she wanted it. We had no meaningful chats and I got nothing I was seeking
Damn. Seems like you have been aware of all these things ever since. Just tell her you're ending things, she'll get it most probably. Explain her if you want to or don't bother. Just do away with her.
Done. I just wish I handled it differently. I made a fuss about things. Either way the outcome was gonna be the same but now she hates me
Don't think about it too much. Whatever happened, happened. Focus on things which are to come. Find someone else.
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